"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

The Faces Behind the Username

F

Fuglydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
1,541
Reaction score
50
Location
Alberta, Canada
cordoncordon said:
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.

You still up in Canada?

She is doing well, thanks. Getting dressed for work as I write this. :)





You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
Click to expand...

Yessir... think I'm gonna stay up here. I have a good job and started a business last summer, and its just starting to take off... also thinking about applying to med school in the next 4-5 years. Happy being here, but man do the winters ever SUCK!!!!! We still have snow in our backyard. There's been like 6 months of snow coverage :-(

Good to hear you're doing well tho man... How's training and life?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,657
Reaction score
6,618
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
I'm so tempted, because it would give you guys hope that it is possible to stay unbelievably young-looking if you stay young in spirit. The fact that I've never been married sure helped, too, IMO.

Alas, however, I simply can't because of career considerations.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

J

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
22
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
Last edited:
C

cordoncordon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2006
Messages
2,889
Reaction score
109
j0504s said:
http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/2869/jaredxi.jpg

ill add mine to the table...some chick asked me for a pic to show how nice my ass is to a friend...this is what she got....
Click to expand...
Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
 
J

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
22
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
cordoncordon said:
Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
Click to expand...
LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

C

cordoncordon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2006
Messages
2,889
Reaction score
109
j0504s said:
LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
Click to expand...
Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
 
J

j0504s

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2012
Messages
425
Reaction score
22
Location
ConcernedLauries Bed w/ olivia...NY/SoFlo
cordoncordon said:
Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
Click to expand...
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

C

cordoncordon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2006
Messages
2,889
Reaction score
109
j0504s said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
Click to expand...
Nice! Keep going my man!
 
O

OC Speedball

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 8, 2011
Messages
199
Reaction score
10
cordoncordon said:
You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
Click to expand...
Thanks man. She is my girlfriend. Met her on a cold approach at an outdoor mall last summer.
 
C

Crissco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 12, 2009
Messages
1,396
Reaction score
118
Age
39
Location
New York
Props to everyone who posted there real pics. Didnt think most of you would actually post :rockon:
 
E

Epimanes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2012
Messages
1,268
Reaction score
615
Age
48
I'm not sure why the guys here don't post more pics. Personally got nothing to hide. But for those that did post pics its kinda cool to see who's who. So hats off to those that did and left their pics up. :) who knows. Maybe some hottie will come here and see your pics and wana hit ya up. *shrugs* :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top