"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cordoncordon said:
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.

You still up in Canada?

She is doing well, thanks. Getting dressed for work as I write this. :)





You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
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Yessir... think I'm gonna stay up here. I have a good job and started a business last summer, and its just starting to take off... also thinking about applying to med school in the next 4-5 years. Happy being here, but man do the winters ever SUCK!!!!! We still have snow in our backyard. There's been like 6 months of snow coverage :-(

Good to hear you're doing well tho man... How's training and life?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm so tempted, because it would give you guys hope that it is possible to stay unbelievably young-looking if you stay young in spirit. The fact that I've never been married sure helped, too, IMO.

Alas, however, I simply can't because of career considerations.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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j0504s said:
http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/2869/jaredxi.jpg

ill add mine to the table...some chick asked me for a pic to show how nice my ass is to a friend...this is what she got....
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Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
 
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cordoncordon said:
Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
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LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
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Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
 
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Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
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http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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j0504s said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
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Nice! Keep going my man!
 
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cordoncordon said:
You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
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Thanks man. She is my girlfriend. Met her on a cold approach at an outdoor mall last summer.
 
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Props to everyone who posted there real pics. Didnt think most of you would actually post :rockon:
 
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I'm not sure why the guys here don't post more pics. Personally got nothing to hide. But for those that did post pics its kinda cool to see who's who. So hats off to those that did and left their pics up. :) who knows. Maybe some hottie will come here and see your pics and wana hit ya up. *shrugs* :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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