Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cordoncordon said:
Looking swooolllllllllll! Nice gainz.

You still up in Canada?

She is doing well, thanks. Getting dressed for work as I write this. :)





You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
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Yessir... think I'm gonna stay up here. I have a good job and started a business last summer, and its just starting to take off... also thinking about applying to med school in the next 4-5 years. Happy being here, but man do the winters ever SUCK!!!!! We still have snow in our backyard. There's been like 6 months of snow coverage :-(

Good to hear you're doing well tho man... How's training and life?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm so tempted, because it would give you guys hope that it is possible to stay unbelievably young-looking if you stay young in spirit. The fact that I've never been married sure helped, too, IMO.

Alas, however, I simply can't because of career considerations.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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j0504s said:
http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/2869/jaredxi.jpg

ill add mine to the table...some chick asked me for a pic to show how nice my ass is to a friend...this is what she got....
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Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
 
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cordoncordon said:
Dude never stand like that again lol. I would swear you are gay in that pic. :) Good looking guy you are though.

Social Leper-nice job with the gainzzzzzz.

Actually all of you guys are pretty decent looking. Ttye, Espi, etc.
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LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL Cordon...ya it is a pretty homoerotic pic now that i look at it again...it was the only way to get the picture the girl wanted of my abnormally bubbly man ass ahha...you finally could put a face to the person u spoke to who was broken post BPD six months ago...now rebuilt into the alpha I once was, pre the relationship...thanks to you ( I can not thank you enough) and the SS community...but on another note Of course I am a good looking guy!! and who ever said "the only people on this furom cant be good looking other wise they wouldnt be here" My responce to that is alot of people came here b/c they got hurt/heart broken...not so much for how to seduce women...I dont care how good you are, you can always improve aswell...not everything in the world of seduction has been uncovered yet...
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Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
 
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cordoncordon said:
Glad to see you are doing well!

Are you dating anyone new or just playing around?
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http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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j0504s said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203198

I wrote that field report like 2 months ago...so u can see a little bit of the work I'm doing..let me know what you think...I really should update and write more of them.....

The morrocan from the report I have been seeing since then but been on many many first dates and just messing around with other girls...my filter is on super high b.c of yjat bpd....no more crazyness for me...well unless its good crazy...
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Nice! Keep going my man!
 
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cordoncordon said:
You are a good looking guy OC.

Who is the girl in the pic? Gf? FB? Random hookup?
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Thanks man. She is my girlfriend. Met her on a cold approach at an outdoor mall last summer.
 
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Props to everyone who posted there real pics. Didnt think most of you would actually post :rockon:
 
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I'm not sure why the guys here don't post more pics. Personally got nothing to hide. But for those that did post pics its kinda cool to see who's who. So hats off to those that did and left their pics up. :) who knows. Maybe some hottie will come here and see your pics and wana hit ya up. *shrugs* :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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