"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The "f@ggot" American dialect

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Older people don't seem to have this "dialect", but I've noticed that quite a few younger ones seem to. It's the intonation, which makes them sound kinda dumb/vapid and constantly insecure, and they use "like" constantly. In short, it sounds like a f@ggot speaking.

Is this actually some geographical dialect? is it a sociolect? or is there something in the water or something that makes people speak this way?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol


 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone that has shown any propensity towards faggottry in any threads should be banned permanently.

No exceptions.

No mercy.
 

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It's a transitional accent and way of inflecting between the genders. Its purpose is to not appear too "offensively" masculine.

I would liken it to the "Transatlantic" accent that was popular in movies and music in the 20s and 30s. Back then, the media developed this accent that was a cross between American and British in order to appeal to both areas. A dropping of "R's", a deliberate "T" sound for T's instead of the American habit of making "T" sound like "D", and on it goes.

Because men are ashamed of their masculinity, they're like, starting to sound a little more feminine, a little more unsure of themselves, like, you know? [That was an example in case it's not obvious]

Another thing I have noticed recently, at least on YouTube, how more and more men are using the expression "Eeeew!" for gross things. The quintessential female phrase.

Add to that the new tendency for "men" to hold open their mouths when they are getting their picture taken.

It's all a sickening collection of symptoms of today's rampant disease of the mixing of the genders. It is the shaming of men for their masculinity.
 

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I have gay friends that are more straight-sounding than some of these straight kids I hear talking nowadays.
And there were lots of guys like that. I had a hard time believing Bob Mould was gay because he just comes across as a regular guy:


Today, I have a difficult time discerning who's gay and who's not. Some guys who I'd swear are into poopy poking are surprisingly straight. Although I feel a bit bad for women with the current selection of men, they're the ones who wanted men to be more "in touch with their emotions".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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