"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The "f@ggot" American dialect

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Older people don't seem to have this "dialect", but I've noticed that quite a few younger ones seem to. It's the intonation, which makes them sound kinda dumb/vapid and constantly insecure, and they use "like" constantly. In short, it sounds like a f@ggot speaking.

Is this actually some geographical dialect? is it a sociolect? or is there something in the water or something that makes people speak this way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol


 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone that has shown any propensity towards faggottry in any threads should be banned permanently.

No exceptions.

No mercy.
 

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It's a transitional accent and way of inflecting between the genders. Its purpose is to not appear too "offensively" masculine.

I would liken it to the "Transatlantic" accent that was popular in movies and music in the 20s and 30s. Back then, the media developed this accent that was a cross between American and British in order to appeal to both areas. A dropping of "R's", a deliberate "T" sound for T's instead of the American habit of making "T" sound like "D", and on it goes.

Because men are ashamed of their masculinity, they're like, starting to sound a little more feminine, a little more unsure of themselves, like, you know? [That was an example in case it's not obvious]

Another thing I have noticed recently, at least on YouTube, how more and more men are using the expression "Eeeew!" for gross things. The quintessential female phrase.

Add to that the new tendency for "men" to hold open their mouths when they are getting their picture taken.

It's all a sickening collection of symptoms of today's rampant disease of the mixing of the genders. It is the shaming of men for their masculinity.
 

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I have gay friends that are more straight-sounding than some of these straight kids I hear talking nowadays.
And there were lots of guys like that. I had a hard time believing Bob Mould was gay because he just comes across as a regular guy:


Today, I have a difficult time discerning who's gay and who's not. Some guys who I'd swear are into poopy poking are surprisingly straight. Although I feel a bit bad for women with the current selection of men, they're the ones who wanted men to be more "in touch with their emotions".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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