You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lol thanks, broPrecious few personality assessments are known to be reliable, and researchers say their use outside academia is debatable.. Scientific American 2018
How Accurate Are Personality Tests?
Precious few personality assessments are known to be reliable, and researchers say their use outside academia is debatablewww.scientificamerican.com
but they are fun to play around with as long as you don't treat them any different from horoscope
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Agreed
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes and that's why you are the only one here that's most affected by my thread.
Spouting BPD or NPD for 10 years on Sosuave doesn't indicate intellectualism, more like butt-hurt-ism.
U r still 25 years too early to match me with that.
