"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Expressive Men - Spaz Insights

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Precious few personality assessments are known to be reliable, and researchers say their use outside academia is debatable.. Scientific American 2018


but they are fun to play around with as long as you don't treat them any different from horoscope
Lol thanks, bro
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Have patience ty.

As for you uber, no matter how you wish it to different, u r still an expressive, ur placing within ur quadrant is similar to goodstuff, bordering the intellectuals hence ur nerd like qualities.

But you ain't one.

U r just an expressive that has been stunted in growth, could be a number of reasons but one you will need to seek answers to in order for you to move forward.
 

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I literally know small bit losers (society pov) thoughtlessly getting poon. We all knows these ppl. I believe this is all too abstract man. Just my opinion. Hooking up isn't some depthful thing. The few things that work are already there.
 

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Your framework is self constructed and has no connection to reality. So place me where you like in it.

The wind in the far off trees does not affect me much.

And I'll keep reading my horoscope in the paper sometimes for sh1ts and giggles
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your framework is self constructed and has no connection to reality. So place me where you like in it.

The wind in the far off trees does not affect me much.

And I'll keep reading my horoscope in the paper sometimes for sh1ts and giggles
Yes and that's why you are the only one here that's most affected by my thread.

Shiets and giggles indeed buddy.
 

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Spaz,

As a new comer here, I would welcome your thoughts on where my quadrant lies.

My ego would say expressive.....
 
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