"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The exact meaning of beta

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I had a general idea of what a beta is (from biology at school regarding animals),however people in this site use that term meaning different concepts so I would like someone to give a proper description.

Also some guys say this condition is from your birth others from society,some says you can turn from A to B others say you just can fake it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There isn't one. It means whatever a poster conveniently wants it to mean at the time they use it.
 

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I think the general term is used to describe the dude who is not finding his successes...getting walked on by women...I would say even the word "alpha" can take many different meanings..

Instead of defining beta, what would you say the attributes of an Alpha male are?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo I went to the link you posted and here's one of the qualities of an alpha male.
"What’s with this pack ****? ‘XX’ has some serious issues about betrayal. Was she betrayed by a man she loved? An alpha male vows fealty to one pack: the package in his pants.

Beta males are the ones less likely to betray a “member of the pack”, because they don’t have the stones to do it."

So, I need clarity on something. Is Alphaism = DJism? What do you think of the quote I posted Rollo?
 

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Beta: guys who've slept with fewer and/or uglier women than you.
 

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jafyk said:
So, I need clarity on something. Is Alphaism = DJism? What do you think of the quote I posted Rollo?
No. Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic.

Alpha is the mindset, DJism is the application. Alpha is the mindset, assholishness and douchebaggery is the application. Alpha is the mindset, noble, chivalric, leader-of-men is the application. Alpha is the mindset, white collar criminal, or drug-dealing pimp is the application.
 
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