"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The exact meaning of beta

Strelok

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I had a general idea of what a beta is (from biology at school regarding animals),however people in this site use that term meaning different concepts so I would like someone to give a proper description.

Also some guys say this condition is from your birth others from society,some says you can turn from A to B others say you just can fake it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There isn't one. It means whatever a poster conveniently wants it to mean at the time they use it.
 

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I think the general term is used to describe the dude who is not finding his successes...getting walked on by women...I would say even the word "alpha" can take many different meanings..

Instead of defining beta, what would you say the attributes of an Alpha male are?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rollo I went to the link you posted and here's one of the qualities of an alpha male.
"What’s with this pack ****? ‘XX’ has some serious issues about betrayal. Was she betrayed by a man she loved? An alpha male vows fealty to one pack: the package in his pants.

Beta males are the ones less likely to betray a “member of the pack”, because they don’t have the stones to do it."

So, I need clarity on something. Is Alphaism = DJism? What do you think of the quote I posted Rollo?
 

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Beta: guys who've slept with fewer and/or uglier women than you.
 

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jafyk said:
So, I need clarity on something. Is Alphaism = DJism? What do you think of the quote I posted Rollo?
No. Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic.

Alpha is the mindset, DJism is the application. Alpha is the mindset, assholishness and douchebaggery is the application. Alpha is the mindset, noble, chivalric, leader-of-men is the application. Alpha is the mindset, white collar criminal, or drug-dealing pimp is the application.
 
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