"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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phillyb

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Ok , here is the deal.....the girl im seeing went over to her ex boyfriends house (which houses like 4 dudes) to retrieve a coffee table, which shes giving to me.I HAD No problem with this at all on my end, i was totally comfortable. HOWEVER, she then tells me that she feels the need to go over there at least "every six months" just to keep up good relations with the household, since they used to hang out etc etc......blah blah f-king blah!!! I let her know that this is quite weird, and i didnt like that idea. "well i just wont go then, I knew this would be an issue" She says.......YER damn right I say. I then told her that, what if the roles were reversed and i told her of this kind of crap.......she says she would flip out.......Yer damn right I say....but... I told her that I'm not the jealous type and i'm not going to tell her what to do. (i guess she could have not told me squat (especially if there were underlying reasons) about this whole deal.


Well we ended up talking about it more after cooling down and she brought up that it is fun over there, beer pong or some s-it. I dont know,


Am I blowing this outta proportition?......

questions, comments, concerns.....

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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I think you handled it quite well. You didn't buy into her bull5hit excuse to "keep good relations with the householder".

Just don't bring this issue back up. It should be settled now.
 
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Once every 6 months will turn into 3 months will turn in every month - will turn into a couple times a month - will turn into drinks or dinner once in a while.

Bury it today.
 
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