"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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phillyb

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Ok , here is the deal.....the girl im seeing went over to her ex boyfriends house (which houses like 4 dudes) to retrieve a coffee table, which shes giving to me.I HAD No problem with this at all on my end, i was totally comfortable. HOWEVER, she then tells me that she feels the need to go over there at least "every six months" just to keep up good relations with the household, since they used to hang out etc etc......blah blah f-king blah!!! I let her know that this is quite weird, and i didnt like that idea. "well i just wont go then, I knew this would be an issue" She says.......YER damn right I say. I then told her that, what if the roles were reversed and i told her of this kind of crap.......she says she would flip out.......Yer damn right I say....but... I told her that I'm not the jealous type and i'm not going to tell her what to do. (i guess she could have not told me squat (especially if there were underlying reasons) about this whole deal.


Well we ended up talking about it more after cooling down and she brought up that it is fun over there, beer pong or some s-it. I dont know,


Am I blowing this outta proportition?......

questions, comments, concerns.....

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think you handled it quite well. You didn't buy into her bull5hit excuse to "keep good relations with the householder".

Just don't bring this issue back up. It should be settled now.
 
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Once every 6 months will turn into 3 months will turn in every month - will turn into a couple times a month - will turn into drinks or dinner once in a while.

Bury it today.
 
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