"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Essential Role of Men in sex

BaronOfHair

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This is not about me, but a close friend. When he was about 14 I think, an older neighbor woman took him under her wing, and taught him how to please a woman. He was very tall at a young age, so this probably has something to do with why he was chosen
I take it he told you this story, and you've made little effort to no effort to verify it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I take it he told you this story, and you've made little effort to no effort to verify it
He is to this day a close and very trusted friend, and I don't recall him ever lying to me, this is not a mere acquaintance. I was in school and in the neighborhood with him at the time, I know of the neighbor of which he speaks, and I don't find it surprising. She had a reputation and there were some things going on around her house which people were aware of. It sounds consistent with other behaviors I've observed from her, and consistent with behaviors I've seen from him. And again remember, this happened in the '70s, when attitudes were much different. I don't doubt his story at all.
 

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The purpose of carrying out a mission like this is to get you action-oriented, as opposed to getting lost in these weird thoughts of yours
You will be seen as a maniac or low value from the woman?

This is not about me, but a close friend. When he was about 14 I think, an older neighbor woman took him under her wing, and taught him how to please a woman. He was very tall at a young age, so this probably has something to do with why he was chosen. This is now considered a crime, but this was back in the '70s and probably wouldn't be considered quite so shocking with all the "free love" attitudes going around. I'm sure it was still technically a crime back then, but if it had been a 14 year old female, the guy probably would have been sent up the river for life. Anyway.

This experience made him very, very confident in his sexual skills and experience. After all, he had received a masterclass of sorts. He used to scoff at the kids in school, like the football players who bragged about their conquests. He thought he had the advantage over all of them. I've always said preparation leads to confidence. A basketball player is confident going on to the court because he knows he has put in the preparation - the practice and coaching. A musician is confident going onstage because he has put in the preparation - the practice and learning his instrument. I guess my point is that it appears this was a positive experience for him, whether it was a crime or not.
You perfectly hit the point.

You can have your inner self esteem, but repeated exposure to an event, and the feedback from it, make you a Man.

In this case, we are talking about the "quality" of those events, more than "quantity".

I wonder if we can get lucky like your friend, to find someone so expert which can teach you things.
This was the point of the post: do we have that by paying a professional escort, or not? This was the point about it
 

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This is not about me, but a close friend. When he was about 14 I think, an older neighbor woman took him under her wing, and taught him how to please a woman. He was very tall at a young age, so this probably has something to do with why he was chosen. This is now considered a crime, but this was back in the '70s and probably wouldn't be considered quite so shocking with all the "free love" attitudes going around. I'm sure it was still technically a crime back then, but if it had been a 14 year old female, the guy probably would have been sent up the river for life. Anyway.

This experience made him very, very confident in his sexual skills and experience. After all, he had received a masterclass of sorts. He used to scoff at the kids in school, like the football players who bragged about their conquests. He thought he had the advantage over all of them. I've always said preparation leads to confidence. A basketball player is confident going on to the court because he knows he has put in the preparation - the practice and coaching. A musician is confident going onstage because he has put in the preparation - the practice and learning his instrument. I guess my point is that it appears this was a positive experience for him, whether it was a crime or not.
You perfectly hit the point.

You can have your inner self esteem, but repeated exposure to an event, and the feedback from it, make you a Man.

In this case, we are talking about the "quality" of those events, more than "quantity".
 

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You will be seen as a maniac or low value from the woman?
Invite a woman to join you for coffee or frozen yogurt, then instruct her to do this
, right before you all leave. Don't worry about what she thinks at that moment. This is about you taking action out in reality
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Invite a woman to join you for coffee or frozen yogurt, then instruct her to do this
, right before you all leave. Don't worry about what she thinks at that moment.
Then how she will consider you?
How would this action make her feel from now on?
 
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