Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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THE END to the looks debate

Real

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its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Real said:
its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
This is a great post! Straight to be point w/o any BS...attitude is everything.
 

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If you dress up and maintain a good build, you will get MORE 'hotties' than you would otherwise. A better looking guy will still have the initial leg up however. Facts are facts.

On the flip side, many times guys on the better looking end of the spectrum tend to lean on this too much and it hinders their game progression. And looks without game is like a neatly wrapped turd for Christmas.

Ho Ho Hos!
 
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