"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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THE END to the looks debate

Real

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its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Real said:
its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
This is a great post! Straight to be point w/o any BS...attitude is everything.
 

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If you dress up and maintain a good build, you will get MORE 'hotties' than you would otherwise. A better looking guy will still have the initial leg up however. Facts are facts.

On the flip side, many times guys on the better looking end of the spectrum tend to lean on this too much and it hinders their game progression. And looks without game is like a neatly wrapped turd for Christmas.

Ho Ho Hos!
 
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