"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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THE END to the looks debate

Real

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its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Real said:
its more simple than you all think

the following (written by me) sums up how much looks matter and how much we should worry about them:

"LOOK THE BEST YOU CAN"

thats it

if you are not trying to look good for the hotties, you won't get success

if you dress up, if you work out, if you do whatever it is you gotta do to look the best you can, you WILL get hotties

THATS IT

no more height threads PLEAAAAAASE
This is a great post! Straight to be point w/o any BS...attitude is everything.
 

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If you dress up and maintain a good build, you will get MORE 'hotties' than you would otherwise. A better looking guy will still have the initial leg up however. Facts are facts.

On the flip side, many times guys on the better looking end of the spectrum tend to lean on this too much and it hinders their game progression. And looks without game is like a neatly wrapped turd for Christmas.

Ho Ho Hos!
 
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