The "Emotional Tampon" Curse

[My Name is Nobody]

Alright, so im gonna list what I believe to be the kind of crap women pour on you when you have been friended:

Saddness/Anger
- They call/text you to vent out about how they can't go out and have fun.
- Boss is being a real d!ckhead at work.
- Their pet died.
- Some dude they like doesnt like them back.
- Their ex-bf is seeing another girl and they're going emo over it.
- Their current bf is being an a-hole.
- When they start telling you about how they like another dude.
- Anything regarding another guy that they like or have feelings for.

Yea, I concluded that its mostly negative emotions and situations that doesn't involve yourself.

Im pretty sure I didn't contribute anything new here but feel free to add anything else I might have missed or if you question any of the above listed.

This is a pretty good list.. the last girl who friend zoned me did most of those things. The only mistake I made was hang around and let her tell me all those things in the hopes I would still get some.

I think there are 2 types of "friend zones". The first is when you never slept with her at all, then the 2nd when she friend zones after you hit it.

 

[comic_relief]

This is a pretty good list.. the last girl who friend zoned me did most of those things. The only mistake I made was hang around and let her tell me all those things in the hopes I would still get some.

I think there are 2 types of "friend zones". The first is when you never slept with her at all, then the 2nd when she friend zones after you hit it.

I see a third type of friendszone. The third friendszone is where if a girl begins to vomit emotions onto me, I politely get up and leave. They get the hint.

I have them treat me like an actual friend.

comic_relief

 

[Rebound Material]

This is a pretty good list.. the last girl who friend zoned me did most of those things. The only mistake I made was hang around and let her tell me all those things in the hopes I would still get some.

I think there are 2 types of "friend zones". The first is when you never slept with her at all, then the 2nd when she friend zones after you hit it.

AHH...It sucks but Im so familiar with the 1st type of friendzone . At least when you hit it and then get FZ'd, u can say that you left with SOMETHING.

 

[betterthandead]

uh, girls should be allowed to not see you as romantic material and if a girl is spouting this and you feel truly uncomfortable discussing emotional material with her then distance yourself.

it's seems so silly, but guys get angry when they put themselves in the "friendszone" by themselves.

 

[JackPrescott]

:nervous: ok...

Gaming is supposed to be fun. It doesn't matter if you win or lose a girl. It is just supposed to be fun. if I have to work my ass off to get a girl, it is not worth it to me.

And if I do get friendszoned, then so what? They usually chill with me and introduce me to their female friends that they have and I sleep with one or two of them. Nothing wrong with that.

I am not saying that your mindset or my mindset is correct or incorrect, it is just a different style that works for different people. Personally, I wouldn't use it.

comic_relief

It may "supposed to be fun" but for me, it's only fun when I win. If I have to work my ass off to get a girl, and I sexually conquer her, it's all good. If I put in an average effort to get the Friendszone $hit, all I want is some form of revenge. I wont chill once I have been friendszoned, unless they beg, and they buy the rounds. If I can fukk some of their friends in front of them, that to me is a form of revenge.

Personally, I wouldnt use yours either.

 

[comic_relief]

It may "supposed to be fun" but for me, it's only fun when I win. If I have to work my ass off to get a girl, and I sexually conquer her, it's all good. If I put in an average effort to get the Friendszone $hit, all I want is some form of revenge. I wont chill once I have been friendszoned, unless they beg, and they buy the rounds. If I can fukk some of their friends in front of them, that to me is a form of revenge.

Personally, I wouldnt use yours either.

your too serious for me.

btw at least we are at agreement

comic_relief

 

[comic_relief]

what's the best way to get out of this...

stop all contact and move on.

That kind of friendszone is hazardous to your health.

comic_relief

 

[iqqi]

We can agree to disagree on this one. I am big on revenge. To the point of an Ahab like obsession.

Haha, I love your frank honesty. I almost want to give you rep points.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Jack, the losses teach you more than the "gains".

Think about it. If you´re winning it´s because you know the game. And when you´re learning you indeed make mistakes.

This inflated ego may be your downfall.

 

[JackPrescott]

Jack, the losses teach you more than the "gains".

Think about it. If you´re winning it´s because you know the game. And when you´re learning you indeed make mistakes.

This inflated ego may be your downfall.

The Attention Who*res have the Ego trip, not me. I am a humble man. But I play to win, baby, not lose. IF a woman is throwing me sexual hints and flirtatious signals, and I call her on her sh*it and get "Friendszoned" it is not happy times. I cannot stomach or tolerate the Friendszone.

I do not "cold approach" By the time I invest time, energy, effort and $$$ (Not much in the beginning...the cost of a mixed drink or a coffee date) I have to have gotten some signals that she was indeed interested. Then I move in for the kill, or at least the Kino, only to be told "I dont see you like that" "LJBF" "I am not ready for anything right now" "I am finding myself now" "I need some time alone" or any one of thousands of lamed ass excuses for "You may not enter my vagina with your penis" it is maddening. If you arent interested, then don't play the game, period.

 

[Rebound Material]

The Attention Who*res have the Ego trip, not me. I am a humble man. But I play to win, baby, not lose. IF a woman is throwing me sexual hints and flirtatious signals, and I call her on her sh*it and get "Friendszoned" it is not happy times. I cannot stomach or tolerate the Friendszone.

Yes, its always a whack ass feeling to get teased so I feel you on that one. But hell, follow our own advice but not to such an extreme. Cut outgoing contact with her(notice I didnt mention incoming contact. If she calls you, make it brief and closed ended).

 

[JackPrescott]

Yes, its always a whack ass feeling to get teased so I feel you on that one. But hell, follow our own advice but not to such an extreme. Cut outgoing contact with her(notice I didnt mention incoming contact. If she calls you, make it brief and closed ended).

Agreed. And thats a good policy. I still enjoy the feeling of them seeing me with another woman, however, but thats just me and my Ahab issues.

 

[BipedGod]

I absolutely agree with JackPrescott, you kick the enemys a** in a way that they understand they have just had their a** kicked, you don't take a terrorist to a negotating table and impose political sanctions...you blow the stupid mother fu*kers up!! When a woman fu*ks with you you MUST fu*k back, all this bs about ignoring her, nexting her, witholding attention is a front for cowardace, those Pu**ies who are worried about looking insecure because they reacted to her bs are just little boys...who cares what any one else thinks! JackPrescott one more man with some balls, that makes two of us...anyone else want to join?

 

[JackPrescott]

I absolutely agree with JackPrescott, you kick the enemys a** in a way that they understand they have just had their a** kicked, you don't take a terrorist to a negotating table and impose political sanctions...you blow the stupid mother fu*kers up!! When a woman fu*ks with you you MUST fu*k back, all this bs about ignoring her, nexting her, witholding attention is a front for cowardace, those Pu**ies who are worried about looking insecure because they reacted to her bs are just little boys...who cares what any one else thinks! JackPrescott one more man with some balls, that makes two of us...anyone else want to join?

"Revenge is a Dish that is best served COLD.":trouble:

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Living well is the best revenge. They´ll regret to have dumped you.