"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Easiest Ways to Develop Yourself in 2025 - Post Yours

bmp2cpm

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Please POST your best ways to develop yourself in this thread.

Here's mine....

If you have read any of my posts/comments over the years, you will know I am a big believer in improving and developing yourself, as it is the best way to attract and retain quality women.

There is a unique opportunity right now, that I must point out.
  • A 66-year old very rich man just got through his third divorce. Great in business, no so good in marriage. :)
  • This man is avoiding the dark places by producing frequent YouTube videos sharing his entrepreneurial and life experience.
While he might not be for all....I highly recommend watching the lesser known of the Cardone brothers. Watch Gary Cardone (NOT Grant) on Youtube.

Gary's Sunday morning streams are quite enlightening in terms of development.

This guy has been wildly successful at every business venture including the energy sector, he is consulting the incoming administration on BTC. He is streaming all his life wisdom for free. You don't see many successful people doing this, but this guy is.

Cal Newport talks about Deep Work. I guarantee ALL of us spend too much time doing Shallow Work including watching silly useless videos.

Spend 2-3 hours a week in 2025 on YouTube watching Gary Cardone, ie DEEP Work. You will improve/develop yourself in no time!

It doesn't get easier than this. OR does it? Post your easiest ways to develop here!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Learning from older people will shortcut the life experiences you have to go through. Be open and social, gents. Many of you don’t do this, make it a 2025 resolution.
 

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Gary Cardone gives off strong vibes of sleazy used car salesman.
He wrote this in Nov 2017 and since then she divorced her AND another woman?
And this is the guy that OP wants us to listen to? :rolleyes:
This comment on the above article pretty much summarises it all
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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