"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Easiest Ways to Develop Yourself in 2025 - Post Yours

bmp2cpm

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Please POST your best ways to develop yourself in this thread.

Here's mine....

If you have read any of my posts/comments over the years, you will know I am a big believer in improving and developing yourself, as it is the best way to attract and retain quality women.

There is a unique opportunity right now, that I must point out.
  • A 66-year old very rich man just got through his third divorce. Great in business, no so good in marriage. :)
  • This man is avoiding the dark places by producing frequent YouTube videos sharing his entrepreneurial and life experience.
While he might not be for all....I highly recommend watching the lesser known of the Cardone brothers. Watch Gary Cardone (NOT Grant) on Youtube.

Gary's Sunday morning streams are quite enlightening in terms of development.

This guy has been wildly successful at every business venture including the energy sector, he is consulting the incoming administration on BTC. He is streaming all his life wisdom for free. You don't see many successful people doing this, but this guy is.

Cal Newport talks about Deep Work. I guarantee ALL of us spend too much time doing Shallow Work including watching silly useless videos.

Spend 2-3 hours a week in 2025 on YouTube watching Gary Cardone, ie DEEP Work. You will improve/develop yourself in no time!

It doesn't get easier than this. OR does it? Post your easiest ways to develop here!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Learning from older people will shortcut the life experiences you have to go through. Be open and social, gents. Many of you don’t do this, make it a 2025 resolution.
 

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Gary Cardone gives off strong vibes of sleazy used car salesman.
He wrote this in Nov 2017 and since then she divorced her AND another woman?
And this is the guy that OP wants us to listen to? :rolleyes:
This comment on the above article pretty much summarises it all
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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