"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Easiest Ways to Develop Yourself in 2025 - Post Yours

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Please POST your best ways to develop yourself in this thread.

Here's mine....

If you have read any of my posts/comments over the years, you will know I am a big believer in improving and developing yourself, as it is the best way to attract and retain quality women.

There is a unique opportunity right now, that I must point out.
  • A 66-year old very rich man just got through his third divorce. Great in business, no so good in marriage. :)
  • This man is avoiding the dark places by producing frequent YouTube videos sharing his entrepreneurial and life experience.
While he might not be for all....I highly recommend watching the lesser known of the Cardone brothers. Watch Gary Cardone (NOT Grant) on Youtube.

Gary's Sunday morning streams are quite enlightening in terms of development.

This guy has been wildly successful at every business venture including the energy sector, he is consulting the incoming administration on BTC. He is streaming all his life wisdom for free. You don't see many successful people doing this, but this guy is.

Cal Newport talks about Deep Work. I guarantee ALL of us spend too much time doing Shallow Work including watching silly useless videos.

Spend 2-3 hours a week in 2025 on YouTube watching Gary Cardone, ie DEEP Work. You will improve/develop yourself in no time!

It doesn't get easier than this. OR does it? Post your easiest ways to develop here!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Learning from older people will shortcut the life experiences you have to go through. Be open and social, gents. Many of you don’t do this, make it a 2025 resolution.
 

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Gary Cardone gives off strong vibes of sleazy used car salesman.
He wrote this in Nov 2017 and since then she divorced her AND another woman?
And this is the guy that OP wants us to listen to? :rolleyes:
This comment on the above article pretty much summarises it all
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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