"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Dynamics Of Positive People Vs Haters

Young Stallion

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I noticed that you can find two extremes sometimes when looking at different peoples personality.

There are alot of people who are always upbeat and positive, sometimes these people get walked all over and get called too nice and can be annoying. They have a tough time winning arguments against the second group.

Then there are those called the haters, those who have nothin good to say at all, everything just sucks or licks balls, they are quieter but when they speak they are dominant.

My question is which do you think is better in general and better with women? I personally find that I am definitely the first positive group in terms of my own personality, but I also always seem to get walked on by the second group and am always offput by that second group for some reason. I also notice that this second group does seem to get alot of women.

So whats better, the positive person or the hater.

-YS
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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juicywa

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I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
 

Young Stallion

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juicywa said:
I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
See man thats exactly what I mean, people like you in the second group who say pointless mean sh*t like "faggot thread"
 

PapiChulo

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A mix of both is better. You can get away with the meanest and the most negative words if you have a smile on your face.
 

DonGorgon

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oh you mean optimists vs PESSIMISTS??? they are both delusional its always best to be a realist but accepting reality takes alot of energy and inner strength
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fly By Night

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Maaan this is STUPID, this thread sucks AND licks balls. I should make this thread my FB.

But seriously, I don't think that many people fall directly into these categories. There's a lot of people who are outgoing but have absolutely nothing good to say and vice-verse. I tend to look at people individually, it really blocks out people's uniqueness when you try and predict their actions by stereotypes; and trust me, I know A LOT about stereotyping.
 

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Women prefer people who are positive,the loser's are the ones who can't stop *****ing about everything.
 
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