"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Dynamics Of Positive People Vs Haters

Young Stallion

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I noticed that you can find two extremes sometimes when looking at different peoples personality.

There are alot of people who are always upbeat and positive, sometimes these people get walked all over and get called too nice and can be annoying. They have a tough time winning arguments against the second group.

Then there are those called the haters, those who have nothin good to say at all, everything just sucks or licks balls, they are quieter but when they speak they are dominant.

My question is which do you think is better in general and better with women? I personally find that I am definitely the first positive group in terms of my own personality, but I also always seem to get walked on by the second group and am always offput by that second group for some reason. I also notice that this second group does seem to get alot of women.

So whats better, the positive person or the hater.

-YS
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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juicywa

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I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
 

Young Stallion

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juicywa said:
I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
See man thats exactly what I mean, people like you in the second group who say pointless mean sh*t like "faggot thread"
 

PapiChulo

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A mix of both is better. You can get away with the meanest and the most negative words if you have a smile on your face.
 

DonGorgon

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oh you mean optimists vs PESSIMISTS??? they are both delusional its always best to be a realist but accepting reality takes alot of energy and inner strength
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fly By Night

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Maaan this is STUPID, this thread sucks AND licks balls. I should make this thread my FB.

But seriously, I don't think that many people fall directly into these categories. There's a lot of people who are outgoing but have absolutely nothing good to say and vice-verse. I tend to look at people individually, it really blocks out people's uniqueness when you try and predict their actions by stereotypes; and trust me, I know A LOT about stereotyping.
 

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Women prefer people who are positive,the loser's are the ones who can't stop *****ing about everything.
 
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