"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Dynamics Of Positive People Vs Haters

Young Stallion

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I noticed that you can find two extremes sometimes when looking at different peoples personality.

There are alot of people who are always upbeat and positive, sometimes these people get walked all over and get called too nice and can be annoying. They have a tough time winning arguments against the second group.

Then there are those called the haters, those who have nothin good to say at all, everything just sucks or licks balls, they are quieter but when they speak they are dominant.

My question is which do you think is better in general and better with women? I personally find that I am definitely the first positive group in terms of my own personality, but I also always seem to get walked on by the second group and am always offput by that second group for some reason. I also notice that this second group does seem to get alot of women.

So whats better, the positive person or the hater.

-YS
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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juicywa

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I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
 

Young Stallion

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juicywa said:
I'm the upbeat type, but, women is non-factor why I am.


/faggot thread.
See man thats exactly what I mean, people like you in the second group who say pointless mean sh*t like "faggot thread"
 

PapiChulo

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A mix of both is better. You can get away with the meanest and the most negative words if you have a smile on your face.
 

DonGorgon

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oh you mean optimists vs PESSIMISTS??? they are both delusional its always best to be a realist but accepting reality takes alot of energy and inner strength
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fly By Night

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Maaan this is STUPID, this thread sucks AND licks balls. I should make this thread my FB.

But seriously, I don't think that many people fall directly into these categories. There's a lot of people who are outgoing but have absolutely nothing good to say and vice-verse. I tend to look at people individually, it really blocks out people's uniqueness when you try and predict their actions by stereotypes; and trust me, I know A LOT about stereotyping.
 

Demonicale

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Women prefer people who are positive,the loser's are the ones who can't stop *****ing about everything.
 
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