"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The downfall of civilization is upon us.

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Well i didnt write the text. Its in the book

This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman,’
for she was taken out of man.”

24That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.


Imagine taking this literally. Which the whole world did. If it were literal then Abraham would not have had concubines and several other patriarcs.
God cammanded to not divorce physically but then divorced Isreal.

Is he s hypocrite? Doubt that.
St Paul called husband and wife a mystery.
The parables are about you becoming whole. "Wholey"
The decline is not coming through divorce or sex. Its coming about from the collective ego. This has never been about "fleshy" things. .02
I'm not a religious person, but if you feel to follow that stuff, more power to you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Every time

There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
This should have been hidden behind one of those spoiler tags. Some of us eat while scrolling through sosuave you know...
 

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Sex was created to enjoy. Its the rules and the morality that has killed it.
So called dishonesty.
So God not creat an alpha wolf? An alpha bull? An alpha buck?
Alphas and other behaviors in animals has little to do with morality in humans IMO. Animals act more purely on instinct, humans have intellect. When it comes to humans, just because you have an urge doesn't mean you should act on it. That's where self discipline and morality comes in. People with poor diets give in to their cravings, so they end up fat. Easier to lay in bed instead of getting up and going to the gym. A lot of players who bang everything that moves end up with multiple out of wedlock children to support.

I'm not saying God demands monogamy. But the Biblical patriarchs who had concubines had the wealth to care for them and any offspring. They were responsible.
 

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The God of Abraham does not turn the other way and does not try to be last so as to be first. He does and takes whatever he likes and supports men who do the same as long as they defer to him. Kings reported to God, alpha kings.
Israel had a system of judges. When the people decided they wanted a king, God was not pleased because He was all the king they ever needed. That was the beginning of the end of the Old Covenant. People putting their own wants before what God wants.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Israel had a system of judges. When the people decided they wanted a king, God was not pleased because He was all the king they ever needed. That was the beginning of the end of the Old Covenant. People putting their own wants before what God wants.
Melchizedek....
 
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