"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am so glad I didn't invite some demon into my life desperately trying to separate me from my resources and assets, every single woman I have ever had a serious relation ship's life has officially devolved into a train wreck, I just saw the last one a couple weeks ago, she was standing beside her dad and he took 2 pictures of me, didn't even recognize her or him until I was thinking about it later on, second guessing myself until I realized she had red hair and blue eyes, looked her up and not doing well. I'm sure I'm being talked about in whatever group chat the pics made it onto, feels good.

Im seriously considering adoption at some point, I'd rather pass my assets onto my lineage directly as opposed to having my lineage receive them after they are sifted through the hands of some woman who just put her time in, I know I won't be marrying the same woman I have kids with, too much of a liability. I wonder if adopting and then having a bio kid would net me some protection against child support?

I'd like the freedom to have children without somebody that's gonna put my children 2nd to themselves, just feels wrong otherwise
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lol not my problem....the only thing I get from "civilization" right now are stupid laws and taxes that equally work against my interest.

Let elders, women and leechers to be concerned about it.

If your lms is good enough you get laid, if not you dont regardless if you live in oslo or nairobi.
But what if you're short? :mad: :mad:
 

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Balkanization would happen first. Men will opt out of society, and become more in tune with core fundamental beliefs. Men are willing to die for beliefs...
I have always thought that the undercurrent of the movie "Fight Club" was men reverting to their pre-civilized nature.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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in the end, men will become slaves. some farmed to be studs and most farmed as workers.
I bet a lot of guys here would like to see themselves in the former category. :)
 

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That is a non answer. Western society does not legally permit poly relationships. Which arrangement do you prefer?
What civilisations do have poly relationships? A bunch of backwater tribes or certain elites in the middle east?

Monogamy is the reason why western civilisation dominated for so long, children need a strong family unit.

Other primates like Chimpanzees and Gorillas have polygamy, they are on the brink of extinction. While we humans continue to dominate.
 
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There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
This reminds me of the time I was reading an article about “What toxic masculinity is and the dangers it presents.”

Not only was it wildly inaccurate,it was also written by a single,very Karen looking middle aged woman.
 

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I bet a lot of guys here would like to see themselves in the former category. :)
just being a tool, maybe not. might be hard to perform without drugs if being dominated by women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women dont understand that men dont plant trees if neither them nor their biological kids will reap the fruit of those.
 

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What civilisations do have poly relationships? A bunch of backwater tribes or certain elites in the middle east?

Monogamy is the reason why western civilisation dominated for so long, children need a strong family unit.

Other primates like Chimpanzees and Gorillas have polygamy, they are on the brink of extinction. While we humans continue to dominate.
He's wokahontas. Don't encourage him.
 

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just being a tool, maybe not. might be hard to perform without drugs if being dominated by women.
I still think a lot of guys would glory in being the "alpha" choice, the sex guy as opposed to the beta work guy.
 

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I still think a lot of guys would glory in being the "alpha" choice, the sex guy as opposed to the beta work guy.
That's probably the better of the two. the real alpha guy would not like being herded, even if the activity is fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
yeah , ugly people in the vast majority of cases are just a bunch of ultra frustrated folks , that would rather see the world so they do not feel bad about themselves
 

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Some guys like having more then 1 female. Its ages old.
I would say that the fact that people have become lovers of riches more then God is more of a decline then sexual nature.
God created the world an all thats in it. Isnt that the text.
so when he said ALL he meant just some things?
There are shows out there on all the ways creatures mate. Seen it years ago and it was astounding the variety.

I think guys especially have taken their morality outside of something that it was designed to be.
Im not a male feminist or agree with any of that.
But if you are a tool in life, no game and a shlub. We are supposed to hate the women for wanting some new dik from a better mate? Couldnt that be a blessing for her?
Whether poly or not i dont know or do I care what other ppl do within the laws of society.
Maybe this decline is going to usher in a new beginning. Rebirth?

Its like the tradcons are turning Christianity right back into the Pharasees of Christs days. Strange.

Women are women by nature and will act accordingly. I think wise men study nature as its role in religion as well.
I think you're mistaken, but to each their own. You are welcomed to follow and believe in whatever you wish.
 

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I would say that the fact that people have become lovers of riches more then God is more of a decline then sexual nature.
When you say lovers of riches, I would include sexuality in that also. Seekers of pleasure, you might say. Lovers of abundance, guys being lovers of getting pleasure through hedonistic ways rather than lovers of god. Today's men want to fancy themselves some sort of alpha male above all. Even the term "alpha" supplants God's place. Common PUA theory tells you to set yourself up as "king" of your life, again supplanting God's place.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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