"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The downfall of civilization is upon us.

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I am so glad I didn't invite some demon into my life desperately trying to separate me from my resources and assets, every single woman I have ever had a serious relation ship's life has officially devolved into a train wreck, I just saw the last one a couple weeks ago, she was standing beside her dad and he took 2 pictures of me, didn't even recognize her or him until I was thinking about it later on, second guessing myself until I realized she had red hair and blue eyes, looked her up and not doing well. I'm sure I'm being talked about in whatever group chat the pics made it onto, feels good.

Im seriously considering adoption at some point, I'd rather pass my assets onto my lineage directly as opposed to having my lineage receive them after they are sifted through the hands of some woman who just put her time in, I know I won't be marrying the same woman I have kids with, too much of a liability. I wonder if adopting and then having a bio kid would net me some protection against child support?

I'd like the freedom to have children without somebody that's gonna put my children 2nd to themselves, just feels wrong otherwise
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol not my problem....the only thing I get from "civilization" right now are stupid laws and taxes that equally work against my interest.

Let elders, women and leechers to be concerned about it.

If your lms is good enough you get laid, if not you dont regardless if you live in oslo or nairobi.
But what if you're short? :mad: :mad:
 

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Balkanization would happen first. Men will opt out of society, and become more in tune with core fundamental beliefs. Men are willing to die for beliefs...
I have always thought that the undercurrent of the movie "Fight Club" was men reverting to their pre-civilized nature.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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in the end, men will become slaves. some farmed to be studs and most farmed as workers.
I bet a lot of guys here would like to see themselves in the former category. :)
 

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That is a non answer. Western society does not legally permit poly relationships. Which arrangement do you prefer?
What civilisations do have poly relationships? A bunch of backwater tribes or certain elites in the middle east?

Monogamy is the reason why western civilisation dominated for so long, children need a strong family unit.

Other primates like Chimpanzees and Gorillas have polygamy, they are on the brink of extinction. While we humans continue to dominate.
 
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There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
This reminds me of the time I was reading an article about “What toxic masculinity is and the dangers it presents.”

Not only was it wildly inaccurate,it was also written by a single,very Karen looking middle aged woman.
 

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I bet a lot of guys here would like to see themselves in the former category. :)
just being a tool, maybe not. might be hard to perform without drugs if being dominated by women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Women dont understand that men dont plant trees if neither them nor their biological kids will reap the fruit of those.
 

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What civilisations do have poly relationships? A bunch of backwater tribes or certain elites in the middle east?

Monogamy is the reason why western civilisation dominated for so long, children need a strong family unit.

Other primates like Chimpanzees and Gorillas have polygamy, they are on the brink of extinction. While we humans continue to dominate.
He's wokahontas. Don't encourage him.
 

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just being a tool, maybe not. might be hard to perform without drugs if being dominated by women.
I still think a lot of guys would glory in being the "alpha" choice, the sex guy as opposed to the beta work guy.
 

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I still think a lot of guys would glory in being the "alpha" choice, the sex guy as opposed to the beta work guy.
That's probably the better of the two. the real alpha guy would not like being herded, even if the activity is fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
yeah , ugly people in the vast majority of cases are just a bunch of ultra frustrated folks , that would rather see the world so they do not feel bad about themselves
 

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Some guys like having more then 1 female. Its ages old.
I would say that the fact that people have become lovers of riches more then God is more of a decline then sexual nature.
God created the world an all thats in it. Isnt that the text.
so when he said ALL he meant just some things?
There are shows out there on all the ways creatures mate. Seen it years ago and it was astounding the variety.

I think guys especially have taken their morality outside of something that it was designed to be.
Im not a male feminist or agree with any of that.
But if you are a tool in life, no game and a shlub. We are supposed to hate the women for wanting some new dik from a better mate? Couldnt that be a blessing for her?
Whether poly or not i dont know or do I care what other ppl do within the laws of society.
Maybe this decline is going to usher in a new beginning. Rebirth?

Its like the tradcons are turning Christianity right back into the Pharasees of Christs days. Strange.

Women are women by nature and will act accordingly. I think wise men study nature as its role in religion as well.
I think you're mistaken, but to each their own. You are welcomed to follow and believe in whatever you wish.
 

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I would say that the fact that people have become lovers of riches more then God is more of a decline then sexual nature.
When you say lovers of riches, I would include sexuality in that also. Seekers of pleasure, you might say. Lovers of abundance, guys being lovers of getting pleasure through hedonistic ways rather than lovers of god. Today's men want to fancy themselves some sort of alpha male above all. Even the term "alpha" supplants God's place. Common PUA theory tells you to set yourself up as "king" of your life, again supplanting God's place.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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