"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The downfall of civilization is upon us.

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Well i didnt write the text. Its in the book

This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman,’
for she was taken out of man.”

24That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.


Imagine taking this literally. Which the whole world did. If it were literal then Abraham would not have had concubines and several other patriarcs.
God cammanded to not divorce physically but then divorced Isreal.

Is he s hypocrite? Doubt that.
St Paul called husband and wife a mystery.
The parables are about you becoming whole. "Wholey"
The decline is not coming through divorce or sex. Its coming about from the collective ego. This has never been about "fleshy" things. .02
I'm not a religious person, but if you feel to follow that stuff, more power to you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every time

There should be a point where you just stop listening to what ugly people have to say about anything
This should have been hidden behind one of those spoiler tags. Some of us eat while scrolling through sosuave you know...
 

zekko

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Sex was created to enjoy. Its the rules and the morality that has killed it.
So called dishonesty.
So God not creat an alpha wolf? An alpha bull? An alpha buck?
Alphas and other behaviors in animals has little to do with morality in humans IMO. Animals act more purely on instinct, humans have intellect. When it comes to humans, just because you have an urge doesn't mean you should act on it. That's where self discipline and morality comes in. People with poor diets give in to their cravings, so they end up fat. Easier to lay in bed instead of getting up and going to the gym. A lot of players who bang everything that moves end up with multiple out of wedlock children to support.

I'm not saying God demands monogamy. But the Biblical patriarchs who had concubines had the wealth to care for them and any offspring. They were responsible.
 

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The God of Abraham does not turn the other way and does not try to be last so as to be first. He does and takes whatever he likes and supports men who do the same as long as they defer to him. Kings reported to God, alpha kings.
Israel had a system of judges. When the people decided they wanted a king, God was not pleased because He was all the king they ever needed. That was the beginning of the end of the Old Covenant. People putting their own wants before what God wants.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Israel had a system of judges. When the people decided they wanted a king, God was not pleased because He was all the king they ever needed. That was the beginning of the end of the Old Covenant. People putting their own wants before what God wants.
Melchizedek....
 
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