She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It works because it got people talking about it.CaptainJ said:What a crap advert. Do Americans really find this funny? Bad acting, nothing new, poorly editted and not even funny.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes. I do not own a television.Big Poppa said:Another reason not to watch TV.
f283000 said:Exactly. This commercial is an attack on black people when you think about it but most are clueless.
Yeah who gives a **** about something that affects you directly and the quality of life around you. Who gives a **** when there is a campaign to show men are emasculated on tv and children are watching and they grow up seeing men as irresponsible pu***s. Who gives a **** when a decent looking black guy is made to look like a bafoon in a community that idolizes thugs. Who gives a **** really??
When you get a clue to the overall picture and how this affects everyone then come back.