"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Sirducer
No offence guys but from what Ive seen is an mASF based PUA, craps all over a DJ... :)
I agree.

But mASF based PUAs are also notorious for not being able to keep a girl

PUA focuses on outer game, leaving the guy to be very surface oriented and uninteresting in the long term

DJ focuses on inner game, making the guy an interesting and solid person, but without the outer game girls never even get a chance to see this

Combine the two - inner game with outer game - and you have an unstoppable force!


BrotherAP :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
I agree.

But mASF based PUAs are also notorious for not being able to keep a girl

PUA focuses on outer game, leaving the guy to be very surface oriented and uninteresting in the long term

DJ focuses on inner game, making the guy an interesting and solid person, but without the outer game girls never even get a chance to see this

Combine the two - inner game with outer game - and you have an unstoppable force!


BrotherAP :D
I dont know what you mean by "DJ focuses on inner game..." when a lot of posts on this forum are very newbish and naive... in a sense that these guys are still searching for that "special pill."

Furthermore DJs/PUAs that are too focused on an outer game "routine performing clowns" are really fake and will not go far at all, you are right.

Actually we emphasize the whole aspect of fixing your inner game first and outer game will follow. Thats the key... its like having a PUA state and everything you say comes of as PUA... not like remembering some PUA catch phrase and trying desperately to make you get some puss :)

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i dont think you can be a true DJ without having at least the basic PUA skills.

its annoying how on here PUA and MASF are dirty words, when in reality this site is more like a "natural game extension" to the PUA side of things.

the best PUAs all have incredible inner game. The ****ty "social robot" PUAs are the ones that just recite the routines and have no inner game at all.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist

the best PUAs all have incredible inner game. The ****ty "social robot" PUAs are the ones that just recite the routines and have no inner game at all.

Are you fvckin crazy! Look at Mystery. He breaks down mentally every so often. How is that strong inner game?







PUA = Strong outer game

DJ = Strong inner game
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Are you fvckin crazy! Look at Mystery. He breaks down mentally every so often. How is that strong inner game?


PUA = Strong outer game

DJ = Strong inner game
mystery is more of a crazy artist type..

you know, so talented that he is bound to be crazy?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe "advanced techniques" isn't the right term. I'd like to see more discussion about what to do once you've already gotten a girl's attention. I want to see posts about what kills attraction. Signs that a girl is leading you on, but not that into you really. I want to know what approaches fail, or what ways to approach simply kill your game. I want to first kill my bad habits, so that I can develop my own good ones. These are all things we should discuss.
Ok, that sounds worth discussing, hehe.

Examples always help. So does courage, I'm working on that one... it sounds like you're doing fine in that department
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
Are you fvckin crazy! Look at Mystery. He breaks down mentally every so often. How is that strong inner game?







PUA = Strong outer game

DJ = Strong inner game
Oh please... Mystery is just a bit of a nut and a very self obsessed person who shows a lot of emotion... thats the way HE is personally.
Please dont carpet bomb every PUA just cos Mystery had a mental break down... furthermore guys like Mystery made such sites like this one exist.

As for DJs having strong inner game... seriously how do you explain all the gay threads that many guys (even vets) post? Flame away but if on mASF a guy asks some retarded question like "What routine/****y funny line should I use on this particular girl then he will be flamed by formhandle first and then by other, then his topic will be shut down.

Furthermore, DJ = high school kids. mASF = mature men!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=824250#post824250


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Originally posted by Sirducer

Furthermore, DJ = high school kids. mASF = mature men!

Or

DJ = strong inner game (prizing, mysterious, adventurous, confidence, etc.)

AFC = "high school kids"

PUA = strong outer game (routines, openers, cold reads, compitence, etc.)
 

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I could'nt have said it better myself, its the magic brew when it comes together, I think too many guys worry about the out come, and dont progress
natually, or escalate, to much information overload. H.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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