"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Don At Christmas....your thoughts.

321 I'm The Bomb

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SO tell me guys, does the Don Juan give a Christmas gift to the girl he is interested in or does he pretend she's not worth it and get nothing even if she MAY possibly get you something??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SheepSter

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I thought Santa gave the gifts...
 

Dillinger

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The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice, if he likes the girl he will get her something. If he doesn't she gets a sack of coal.
 
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You don't need a bunch of internet wacks to determine this for you. If you and her are close then do as you feel.
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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Well it seems everyone on this forum knows the meaning of love and life so why not post here? I'm always interested to hear what some of the people on here have to say.....stupid or not!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how long have you been with the girl and what type of relationship do you have?
 
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Originally posted by Dillinger
The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice,
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
 

DJ Mission

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Get one of those Sexual Favors coupon books. . .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this girl a GF?

IMO, if she's a FB or a potential GF, don't worry about it. If you want to give something small, go for it.

If she's your GF, only a real d*ck would leave her hanging with no Christmas present.
 

AFK Protector

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Originally posted by xiola
magic 8 ball says....."you are a loser"


b
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
 

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Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :eek:
 

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if you dont know her that well give her something cheap and funny, that way whe wont take it with too serious and get freaked out.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
Hows this?

If you want to give her a present, then give her one. If you don't, then don't

It's that simple

b
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fenderules

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go to some place like spencer gifts

if she likes to joke then get her something like one of those "big gulp slut shooters" as a joke and best of all it will be C&F
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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We have slept together and since become good friends. I have taken the punt and bought her a gift, a running t-shirt as she's a runner. Spent $65 roughly. Thanks for your help guys.
 

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If you like her a lot buy her a gift.
You can even buy her flowers.

Yes I have given girls flowers, it's not AFC
It's only AFC when you "need" to give her flowers.

Merry Christmas
 
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