"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Don At Christmas....your thoughts.

321 I'm The Bomb

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SO tell me guys, does the Don Juan give a Christmas gift to the girl he is interested in or does he pretend she's not worth it and get nothing even if she MAY possibly get you something??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SheepSter

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I thought Santa gave the gifts...
 

Dillinger

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The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice, if he likes the girl he will get her something. If he doesn't she gets a sack of coal.
 
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You don't need a bunch of internet wacks to determine this for you. If you and her are close then do as you feel.
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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Well it seems everyone on this forum knows the meaning of love and life so why not post here? I'm always interested to hear what some of the people on here have to say.....stupid or not!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how long have you been with the girl and what type of relationship do you have?
 
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Originally posted by Dillinger
The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice,
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
 

DJ Mission

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Get one of those Sexual Favors coupon books. . .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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cactus3178

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Is this girl a GF?

IMO, if she's a FB or a potential GF, don't worry about it. If you want to give something small, go for it.

If she's your GF, only a real d*ck would leave her hanging with no Christmas present.
 

AFK Protector

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Originally posted by xiola
magic 8 ball says....."you are a loser"


b
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
 

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Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :eek:
 

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if you dont know her that well give her something cheap and funny, that way whe wont take it with too serious and get freaked out.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
Hows this?

If you want to give her a present, then give her one. If you don't, then don't

It's that simple

b
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fenderules

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go to some place like spencer gifts

if she likes to joke then get her something like one of those "big gulp slut shooters" as a joke and best of all it will be C&F
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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We have slept together and since become good friends. I have taken the punt and bought her a gift, a running t-shirt as she's a runner. Spent $65 roughly. Thanks for your help guys.
 

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If you like her a lot buy her a gift.
You can even buy her flowers.

Yes I have given girls flowers, it's not AFC
It's only AFC when you "need" to give her flowers.

Merry Christmas
 
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