"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Don At Christmas....your thoughts.

321 I'm The Bomb

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SO tell me guys, does the Don Juan give a Christmas gift to the girl he is interested in or does he pretend she's not worth it and get nothing even if she MAY possibly get you something??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SheepSter

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I thought Santa gave the gifts...
 

Dillinger

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The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice, if he likes the girl he will get her something. If he doesn't she gets a sack of coal.
 
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You don't need a bunch of internet wacks to determine this for you. If you and her are close then do as you feel.
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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Well it seems everyone on this forum knows the meaning of love and life so why not post here? I'm always interested to hear what some of the people on here have to say.....stupid or not!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wildchild

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how long have you been with the girl and what type of relationship do you have?
 
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Originally posted by Dillinger
The don juan does what he wants to do. He doesn't ask for advice,
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
 

DJ Mission

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Get one of those Sexual Favors coupon books. . .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this girl a GF?

IMO, if she's a FB or a potential GF, don't worry about it. If you want to give something small, go for it.

If she's your GF, only a real d*ck would leave her hanging with no Christmas present.
 

AFK Protector

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Originally posted by xiola
magic 8 ball says....."you are a loser"


b
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
 

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Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
only an idiot would not ask for advice.
2 heads are better than one
etc.
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :eek:
 

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if you dont know her that well give her something cheap and funny, that way whe wont take it with too serious and get freaked out.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
AFK says, "GG flaming people ON A FORUM thinking your cool. Offer some constructive criticism next time."

If you like her and she likes you, get her alittle gift. nothing big, but don't be cheap and get socks or toilet paper. read cactus's post.
Hows this?

If you want to give her a present, then give her one. If you don't, then don't

It's that simple

b
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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go to some place like spencer gifts

if she likes to joke then get her something like one of those "big gulp slut shooters" as a joke and best of all it will be C&F
 

321 I'm The Bomb

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We have slept together and since become good friends. I have taken the punt and bought her a gift, a running t-shirt as she's a runner. Spent $65 roughly. Thanks for your help guys.
 

Helter Skelter

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If you like her a lot buy her a gift.
You can even buy her flowers.

Yes I have given girls flowers, it's not AFC
It's only AFC when you "need" to give her flowers.

Merry Christmas
 
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