"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The DJ way to introduce woman you are dating to friends?

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So what is the DJ way to introduce a girl you are dating to your friends? Do you point out, "This is the woman I'm dating _______" (Cus to me that seems kind of like, marking your teritory.)

Would something kind of humor-ress be better? like "Look what I brought you. This is _____." I heard DeAngelo used that once with regard to introducing his girlfriend at the time to a friend of his.


Any pointers?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If its your friends you dont need any territory marking. Just say this is blah, it will be obvious your intentions if you act like a man.
 
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It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blueguy said:
It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
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So not to sound stupid, but you mean, just don't introduce her till someone asks, "Who is this?"

And from there...

do I just say, "this is _________"
or is there a more orignal thing to say? I hate being trite.
 
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blueguy said:
lol. This is ____ (her name)
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Just do what blueguy said, don't complicate things.
 
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Thats what I've been doing, no need to qualify your statement

"This is (hername)"



(and I also have to eliminate my AFC tendencies to slip up and say "this is my friend (hername)")
 
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Hey, fellas. This is my new girlfriend ______ , touch her and I'll kick your ass. Got it? Kthxbye.
 
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