"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The DJ way to introduce woman you are dating to friends?

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So what is the DJ way to introduce a girl you are dating to your friends? Do you point out, "This is the woman I'm dating _______" (Cus to me that seems kind of like, marking your teritory.)

Would something kind of humor-ress be better? like "Look what I brought you. This is _____." I heard DeAngelo used that once with regard to introducing his girlfriend at the time to a friend of his.


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If its your friends you dont need any territory marking. Just say this is blah, it will be obvious your intentions if you act like a man.
 
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It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blueguy said:
It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
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So not to sound stupid, but you mean, just don't introduce her till someone asks, "Who is this?"

And from there...

do I just say, "this is _________"
or is there a more orignal thing to say? I hate being trite.
 
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blueguy said:
lol. This is ____ (her name)
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Just do what blueguy said, don't complicate things.
 
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Thats what I've been doing, no need to qualify your statement

"This is (hername)"



(and I also have to eliminate my AFC tendencies to slip up and say "this is my friend (hername)")
 
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Hey, fellas. This is my new girlfriend ______ , touch her and I'll kick your ass. Got it? Kthxbye.
 
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