"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The DJ way to introduce woman you are dating to friends?

INXS

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So what is the DJ way to introduce a girl you are dating to your friends? Do you point out, "This is the woman I'm dating _______" (Cus to me that seems kind of like, marking your teritory.)

Would something kind of humor-ress be better? like "Look what I brought you. This is _____." I heard DeAngelo used that once with regard to introducing his girlfriend at the time to a friend of his.


Any pointers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Borgon

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If its your friends you dont need any territory marking. Just say this is blah, it will be obvious your intentions if you act like a man.
 

blueguy

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It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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INXS

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blueguy said:
It's always more Alpha if somebody asks you something rather than you appearing to qualify it to them.
So not to sound stupid, but you mean, just don't introduce her till someone asks, "Who is this?"

And from there...

do I just say, "this is _________"
or is there a more orignal thing to say? I hate being trite.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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blueguy said:
lol. This is ____ (her name)
Just do what blueguy said, don't complicate things.
 

rocky_mtn

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Thats what I've been doing, no need to qualify your statement

"This is (hername)"



(and I also have to eliminate my AFC tendencies to slip up and say "this is my friend (hername)")
 

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Hey, fellas. This is my new girlfriend ______ , touch her and I'll kick your ass. Got it? Kthxbye.
 
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