SeymourCake
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Thoughts on this? Where will this trend continue to head in the future?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In the end it will be at LEAST one partner per year of age, so by 20 - 20 partners, by 30 - 30. The distribution will be so that 98% have 10+ partners.Sluts
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's a whole lot of syphilis!!!In the end it will be at LEAST one partner per year of age, so by 20 - 20 partners, by 30 - 30. The distribution will be so that 98% have 10+ partners.
Of course it will continue, in 2020 10+ partners will be more than 50%![]()
Thoughts on this? Where will this trend continue to head in the future?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made girlfriends out of girls with that much mileage? An 18-year old with 16 guys? holy crap!In 1993, my first girlfriend (then 18, HB9) had been with 16 guys.
In 2004, my nth girlfriend (then 25, HB7) had been with 13 guys.
In 2016, my last girlfriend (then 20) was with approximately 20 guys.
It's been a LONG time since a man could find a hot white girl who could count her lovers without using her toes.
Not an argument. Show me some statistics or a counterpoint.You made girlfriends out of girls with that much mileage? An 18-year old with 16 guys? holy crap!