SeymourCake
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Thoughts on this? Where will this trend continue to head in the future?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
In the end it will be at LEAST one partner per year of age, so by 20 - 20 partners, by 30 - 30. The distribution will be so that 98% have 10+ partners.Sluts
Lolz!![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's a whole lot of syphilis!!!In the end it will be at LEAST one partner per year of age, so by 20 - 20 partners, by 30 - 30. The distribution will be so that 98% have 10+ partners.
Of course it will continue, in 2020 10+ partners will be more than 50%![]()
Thoughts on this? Where will this trend continue to head in the future?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made girlfriends out of girls with that much mileage? An 18-year old with 16 guys? holy crap!In 1993, my first girlfriend (then 18, HB9) had been with 16 guys.
In 2004, my nth girlfriend (then 25, HB7) had been with 13 guys.
In 2016, my last girlfriend (then 20) was with approximately 20 guys.
It's been a LONG time since a man could find a hot white girl who could count her lovers without using her toes.
Not an argument. Show me some statistics or a counterpoint.You made girlfriends out of girls with that much mileage? An 18-year old with 16 guys? holy crap!