"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Diabolic Journal

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Ok, let me introduce myself. I am a normal guy with poor social skills, but who is willing to acquire them. It's not that I am very shy but I just didn't feel the urge to hit on girls. Lately, I had some experiences that taught me that I have a long road ahead of me and it's all up to me to travel. Absolutely nobody is going to help me, as I have very few friends, I hang out mostly at a martial arts club (actually just 2 times a week), or on the basketball field, when I feel the mood to play a little.

Clubs, I have no interest in...so I thought to myself that I should just approach girls whenever the opportunity arises during the day. I am not from the USA, and for safety's sake I will not divulge any information that may cause my identity to be revealed. Let's just say, somewhere in Europe. Basically, I want to get going into the "seduction business" and meet a lot of women to dominate, mentally and eventually phisically. Diabolic is just because of my nickname which is also a spinoff of some random sentence in a foreign language that I am studying.

So, I'm basically a broke student who likes to waste time, so as of tomorrow I'm a start recordin' my first approach. So in the meanwhile I want to prepare for it, I guess you have to be in a good mood, high energy (I'm always high-energy, even if my mood isn't great) and hit first, hit fast, hit precise.

This is as a bonus, but if you guys have some kind of fun games you play with girls, I would really appreciate you sharing them, after all I am doing this FOR FUN and not to prove myself anything, because I already have the confidence that I will succeed within the next 2 weeks to have my first kiss...so...ideas, suggestions before or after would be swell.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
 

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xdreamz said:
you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
I know what you mean, I'll have to go through a lot of rejections until someone really good comes along, it will probably take more than 2 weeks. But I still think everyone has something that makes them special, that gives them an edge...call me old-fashioned like that, but deep down, I'd like to think we're more than simple robots. haha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok, so I know I said I was gonna pick up chicks Monday but, it was raining so I felt unmotivated, Tuesday I was indifferent, on Wednesday I was pissed because I couldn't get online, the internet was dead, finally, on Thursday I did it, I saw an ok girl, after a lot of looking around, and when she was moving towards me, I was like :woo: and she was like :cool: and I was thrown away by the sunglasses, so she passed by, I was not going to approach her.

Lol so I panicked and I have 0 work done so far, anyway I am going to write about the other days, hope they'll be better. Hesitation translates into instant failure! I also wasn't expecting to be intimidated by sunglasses! I'll be prepared for that next time. Some diabolic thread, huh? :rolleyes:
 

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Oh and today, friday, my internet is on, but when I went for a walk, I saw no girls to hit on!
 

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You have 0 right now my friend. Get the first one out the way, Next girl you see you need to talk to her.
 

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Still nothing done, it's too hot and I'm not used to this heat. And this is just May. On Saturday I had to entertain guests, Sunday, I played a lot of basketball and finally yesterday, I did Karate and studied with my colleagues for the exams.
Right now, I am thinking of ways to improve myself, this is besides the girl issue.
 
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