"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, let me introduce myself. I am a normal guy with poor social skills, but who is willing to acquire them. It's not that I am very shy but I just didn't feel the urge to hit on girls. Lately, I had some experiences that taught me that I have a long road ahead of me and it's all up to me to travel. Absolutely nobody is going to help me, as I have very few friends, I hang out mostly at a martial arts club (actually just 2 times a week), or on the basketball field, when I feel the mood to play a little.

Clubs, I have no interest in...so I thought to myself that I should just approach girls whenever the opportunity arises during the day. I am not from the USA, and for safety's sake I will not divulge any information that may cause my identity to be revealed. Let's just say, somewhere in Europe. Basically, I want to get going into the "seduction business" and meet a lot of women to dominate, mentally and eventually phisically. Diabolic is just because of my nickname which is also a spinoff of some random sentence in a foreign language that I am studying.

So, I'm basically a broke student who likes to waste time, so as of tomorrow I'm a start recordin' my first approach. So in the meanwhile I want to prepare for it, I guess you have to be in a good mood, high energy (I'm always high-energy, even if my mood isn't great) and hit first, hit fast, hit precise.

This is as a bonus, but if you guys have some kind of fun games you play with girls, I would really appreciate you sharing them, after all I am doing this FOR FUN and not to prove myself anything, because I already have the confidence that I will succeed within the next 2 weeks to have my first kiss...so...ideas, suggestions before or after would be swell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xdreamz

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you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
 

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xdreamz said:
you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
I know what you mean, I'll have to go through a lot of rejections until someone really good comes along, it will probably take more than 2 weeks. But I still think everyone has something that makes them special, that gives them an edge...call me old-fashioned like that, but deep down, I'd like to think we're more than simple robots. haha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok, so I know I said I was gonna pick up chicks Monday but, it was raining so I felt unmotivated, Tuesday I was indifferent, on Wednesday I was pissed because I couldn't get online, the internet was dead, finally, on Thursday I did it, I saw an ok girl, after a lot of looking around, and when she was moving towards me, I was like :woo: and she was like :cool: and I was thrown away by the sunglasses, so she passed by, I was not going to approach her.

Lol so I panicked and I have 0 work done so far, anyway I am going to write about the other days, hope they'll be better. Hesitation translates into instant failure! I also wasn't expecting to be intimidated by sunglasses! I'll be prepared for that next time. Some diabolic thread, huh? :rolleyes:
 

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Oh and today, friday, my internet is on, but when I went for a walk, I saw no girls to hit on!
 

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You have 0 right now my friend. Get the first one out the way, Next girl you see you need to talk to her.
 

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Still nothing done, it's too hot and I'm not used to this heat. And this is just May. On Saturday I had to entertain guests, Sunday, I played a lot of basketball and finally yesterday, I did Karate and studied with my colleagues for the exams.
Right now, I am thinking of ways to improve myself, this is besides the girl issue.
 
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