"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, let me introduce myself. I am a normal guy with poor social skills, but who is willing to acquire them. It's not that I am very shy but I just didn't feel the urge to hit on girls. Lately, I had some experiences that taught me that I have a long road ahead of me and it's all up to me to travel. Absolutely nobody is going to help me, as I have very few friends, I hang out mostly at a martial arts club (actually just 2 times a week), or on the basketball field, when I feel the mood to play a little.

Clubs, I have no interest in...so I thought to myself that I should just approach girls whenever the opportunity arises during the day. I am not from the USA, and for safety's sake I will not divulge any information that may cause my identity to be revealed. Let's just say, somewhere in Europe. Basically, I want to get going into the "seduction business" and meet a lot of women to dominate, mentally and eventually phisically. Diabolic is just because of my nickname which is also a spinoff of some random sentence in a foreign language that I am studying.

So, I'm basically a broke student who likes to waste time, so as of tomorrow I'm a start recordin' my first approach. So in the meanwhile I want to prepare for it, I guess you have to be in a good mood, high energy (I'm always high-energy, even if my mood isn't great) and hit first, hit fast, hit precise.

This is as a bonus, but if you guys have some kind of fun games you play with girls, I would really appreciate you sharing them, after all I am doing this FOR FUN and not to prove myself anything, because I already have the confidence that I will succeed within the next 2 weeks to have my first kiss...so...ideas, suggestions before or after would be swell.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
 

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xdreamz said:
you are not special. this is not a contrived fall from paradise. you will lose.
I know what you mean, I'll have to go through a lot of rejections until someone really good comes along, it will probably take more than 2 weeks. But I still think everyone has something that makes them special, that gives them an edge...call me old-fashioned like that, but deep down, I'd like to think we're more than simple robots. haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, so I know I said I was gonna pick up chicks Monday but, it was raining so I felt unmotivated, Tuesday I was indifferent, on Wednesday I was pissed because I couldn't get online, the internet was dead, finally, on Thursday I did it, I saw an ok girl, after a lot of looking around, and when she was moving towards me, I was like :woo: and she was like :cool: and I was thrown away by the sunglasses, so she passed by, I was not going to approach her.

Lol so I panicked and I have 0 work done so far, anyway I am going to write about the other days, hope they'll be better. Hesitation translates into instant failure! I also wasn't expecting to be intimidated by sunglasses! I'll be prepared for that next time. Some diabolic thread, huh? :rolleyes:
 

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Oh and today, friday, my internet is on, but when I went for a walk, I saw no girls to hit on!
 

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You have 0 right now my friend. Get the first one out the way, Next girl you see you need to talk to her.
 

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Still nothing done, it's too hot and I'm not used to this heat. And this is just May. On Saturday I had to entertain guests, Sunday, I played a lot of basketball and finally yesterday, I did Karate and studied with my colleagues for the exams.
Right now, I am thinking of ways to improve myself, this is besides the girl issue.
 
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