"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The delayed "I have a boyfriend"

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Started a new class two weeks ago on Tuesday.

Met a girl. Flirted with her during the downtime. We exchanged numbers. She texted me first just to BS. I called a few days later to ask her out. She seemed excited (called me "sweetie" on the phone) but was having a medical procedure done so she was going to be home for the next few days and she couldn't go out.

Tonight in class she was on crutches. I neg'd her a little and then said that I was going to get some coffee on campus and that she should come. She said that her leg hurt and that she needed to get home but thanks for asking.

That's normally my two strikes, but I figured maybe this is special circumstance.

So I just text her a few days later and found out she has a BF.

I'm thinking of nexting (bc of boyfriend) but I will have to see her for the next 12 weeks in this class.

1. Should I straight out ignore this chick or just talk if she initiates?

2. Why the F would she wait that long to tell me she has a serious BF? If I had a serious GF I wouldn't even give my number out, let alone talk to some strange chick on the phone - and if she asked me out on the phone I would tell her THEN. Not the THIRD TIME I asked her.

MY UPDATE: Yes I agree with all below - two rejections plus BF = next!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Syrio

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Honestly if I were you I'd keep her as a friend. I don't understand why people on this website are so all about "nexting" a girl because she's not interested in a relationship. Girls have lots of girl friends who you can meet! Having friends who are girls is so beneficial for meeting women you actually DO have a shot with. Unless you genuinely dislike something about her I don't see why not keep her as a friend. As long as you can recognize that nothing is going to happen between you two, I feel like remaining friends can only be a good thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most guys only have true friendships with girls they have f u cked.

OP cannot have this girl as a real friend. Find another girl to spend ur time on.
 
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