"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I gotcha.

I might recommend the straps on shrugs tho... just lets you focus more on your traps, and not that burning in your forearms ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My forearms are pretty well conditioned, although I never thought of it that way. By doing stuff without straps, I'm building more naturally - one muscle wont be a lot stronger than the other. Strong forearms are just plain practical anyway.

Hell, if you ask me, if you arent willing to accept the occasional forearm burning agony, you arent really training properly, are you :p
 

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awww come on benny... you gotta let me have a little comfort in my workouts :)
 

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another good hammsring workout I use is similar to a squat. its like a forward squat, placing the barbell over the front of your just, and proforming a squat movement.

Another one I like are one legged squats , which hit quads. Also helps with balance.
 

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I dont care much for front squats. This was supposed to be a list of the essential lifts, not a great big dictionary where you have all the big movements in there and you pick and choose. To be honest, I was trying to stop the new guys to weights asking the same old questions.

lol semag :D

I might tone down my training a bit. I might be able to pin this illness down to overtraining weakening my immune system. I've been blasting it harder than some of the guys I tag along to the gym for... mainly I work out at home, but all the guys I used to know at the gym before I stopped going get to sneak me in sometimes. They all say that I train just as hard as all the meatheads they see in there, and those are guys that always throw up/sometimes pass out on leg day... so ;\

Still... straps.. pft. Maybe when I get to some serious weights on deads. But until then ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by DJBen
They all say that I train just as hard as all the meatheads they see in there, and those are guys that always throw up/sometimes pass out on leg day... so ;\
I almost passed out on leg day last week. It was actually kind of embarassing.
 

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Heh, me too sazuko. I know what my body is capable of, but I dont know what my body can tolerate over time. I might bust it down to a different split, or work in 10 day weeks. one day off, one day on. After I've finished working all my body parts, take 2 days off.

I'm gonna see how it goes.
 

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benny, are you pushin over 260-270 for deads and shrugs? I figure you're pretty close, and that just kills my hands, that's why I use the straps :)

I've recently incorporated the straps into cable rows, but purely to isolate the back, so that I could concentrate on the form.

I'd say also, to truehockey, rather than one legged squats, one legged legpress... sets of 10 are monster.
 

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My deads are truely messed up at times. Sometimes I get 250, sometimes I get close to 280. It appears to be really closely linked to how much sleep I get, heh

Yeah, it's pretty tough on the hands. I'll consider straps when it feels like my fingers are close to breaking ;)

Just to hijack the thread, the lightweight mens weightlifting took place last night. Truely amazing. 54KG division[I think] Clean and Jerking 150+KG. Insanity. :eek:
 

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Sorry about that pal, I missed it

I dont lift with my arms in the slightest. Although it's a compound lift, it's for my legs and thats where it's gonna hit.

I rest my fingers on the bar lightly and use my legs enitrely. By lifting some of it with my upperbody I find there is a LOT more stress on my core muscles and instead of squats feeling plesantly uncomfortable, they're a nightmare.

Hope that helped.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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