The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
I remember a seasoned member here mentioned this when probing a new user to turn cheek about the misfortunes of his break up with a girlfriend. What does it mean to live on inside of an ex's head?
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The Definition of Living On Inside an Ex's Head
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Desdinova
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If you can give her an extremely thoughtful gift, you will make a permanent dent in her mind. She will forever keep that damn thing, and will pop back into your life every few years hoping to re-kindle how much you cared about her, and how thoughtful you were towards her.
The best thing to do is reject her. She's doing it only for selfish reasons and NOT because she's learned her lesson.
The best thing to do is reject her. She's doing it only for selfish reasons and NOT because she's learned her lesson.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
I think you live on in an ex's head when you follow the SS advice on breakups to a T. No emotion, agree with her, and that's it.
At the end of every classic western, John Wayne or Clint Eastwood sais something stoically poignant and rides off on his horse, the damsel standing on the porch longing for the return of this mysterious man who came and went like the wind. He didn't act like a weak beggar, he was a man of character and went where HE was going, not where he thought SHE would want him to go.
That is the metaphor I picture for living on in your ex's head-you don't cry or beg or act like a pvssy in any way, you tip your hat and ride away.
And when you have TRULY arrived, the desire to live on in her head will not exist, it will simply manifest as a result of who you are.
At the end of every classic western, John Wayne or Clint Eastwood sais something stoically poignant and rides off on his horse, the damsel standing on the porch longing for the return of this mysterious man who came and went like the wind. He didn't act like a weak beggar, he was a man of character and went where HE was going, not where he thought SHE would want him to go.
That is the metaphor I picture for living on in your ex's head-you don't cry or beg or act like a pvssy in any way, you tip your hat and ride away.
And when you have TRULY arrived, the desire to live on in her head will not exist, it will simply manifest as a result of who you are.
real life example: after breaking up with my last gf I went no contact on her. She kept txting/calling me for about 2 years... To this day, common friends tell me she's still asking about me and what's going on my life.