The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
I remember a seasoned member here mentioned this when probing a new user to turn cheek about the misfortunes of his break up with a girlfriend. What does it mean to live on inside of an ex's head?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Definition of Living On Inside an Ex's Head
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Desdinova
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If you can give her an extremely thoughtful gift, you will make a permanent dent in her mind. She will forever keep that damn thing, and will pop back into your life every few years hoping to re-kindle how much you cared about her, and how thoughtful you were towards her.
The best thing to do is reject her. She's doing it only for selfish reasons and NOT because she's learned her lesson.
The best thing to do is reject her. She's doing it only for selfish reasons and NOT because she's learned her lesson.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
I think you live on in an ex's head when you follow the SS advice on breakups to a T. No emotion, agree with her, and that's it.
At the end of every classic western, John Wayne or Clint Eastwood sais something stoically poignant and rides off on his horse, the damsel standing on the porch longing for the return of this mysterious man who came and went like the wind. He didn't act like a weak beggar, he was a man of character and went where HE was going, not where he thought SHE would want him to go.
That is the metaphor I picture for living on in your ex's head-you don't cry or beg or act like a pvssy in any way, you tip your hat and ride away.
And when you have TRULY arrived, the desire to live on in her head will not exist, it will simply manifest as a result of who you are.
At the end of every classic western, John Wayne or Clint Eastwood sais something stoically poignant and rides off on his horse, the damsel standing on the porch longing for the return of this mysterious man who came and went like the wind. He didn't act like a weak beggar, he was a man of character and went where HE was going, not where he thought SHE would want him to go.
That is the metaphor I picture for living on in your ex's head-you don't cry or beg or act like a pvssy in any way, you tip your hat and ride away.
And when you have TRULY arrived, the desire to live on in her head will not exist, it will simply manifest as a result of who you are.
real life example: after breaking up with my last gf I went no contact on her. She kept txting/calling me for about 2 years... To this day, common friends tell me she's still asking about me and what's going on my life.