"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Danger Of Girls With Many Male Friends?

soulforge

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I was just merely pointing out he obvious that there is differences between the sexes.

We act accordingly differently as female and male behavior from nature has encoded us very differently.

Thus you cannot compare the situation that a guy has female friends vs. a chic that has many male friends.

It is two completely different things.
The male experience & the female experience are very
Yeah this video also comments about how feminized men call us “insecure” or other weird put downs.

In fact, there are tons of ground rules for any new woman I am intimate with. I verbalize in a list, the various rules that are my relationship boundaries for her to abide by. For some of them she acts like it’s too much but I do not give women an inch. They might contest the rules I describe but I do not give her an inch.

As I meet a women and if she brings around groups of men she will quickly be told No more of these guys, they are not allowed anywhere near our relationship. Same deal with the gay guys who “are just friends“. The gay guys definitely get the axe too.

Women need to be taught what is acceptable in a relationship or they will run all over you. And they will try running all over you regardless. I respond to their attempts like a wall of ice, and often tell her I will beat her up. And tell her to tell her friends I threatened her, because it brings value to me, every time.

Also respond with an icy retort that you are ready to dump her IMMEDIATELY with no care for her existence if she does not shape up her act she gets DUMPED IMMEDIATELY and you will withdrawal contact with her FOREVER, unless she gets in line.
After several conversations with my ex about her combative & disrespectful behaviour.. She didn't listen to me or care about my feelings & concerns.

I kicked her out of my house 4 months ago with zero contact ever since.

The last I hear about her, she was posting on Facebook that "No Man Will Ever Love Her"

Always the victim are they not.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always have found this to be madness.

Some chicks will upfront, without even being promted, tell you that they have a lots of male friends.

They say it like it's a badge of honour.

If you're girlfriend has lots of male friends, this the life she is living. View attachment 11287
That picture is absolutely hilarious :lol: and I fully agree.
 

soulforge

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Yeah this video also comments about how feminized men call us “insecure” or other weird put downs.

In fact, there are tons of ground rules for any new woman I am intimate with. I verbalize in a list, the various rules that are my relationship boundaries for her to abide by. For some of them she acts like it’s too much but I do not give women an inch. They might contest the rules I describe but I do not give her an inch.

As I meet a women and if she brings around groups of men she will quickly be told No more of these guys, they are not allowed anywhere near our relationship. Same deal with the gay guys who “are just friends“. The gay guys definitely get the axe too.

Women need to be taught what is acceptable in a relationship or they will run all over you. And they will try running all over you regardless. I respond to their attempts like a wall of ice, and often tell her I will beat her up. And tell her to tell her friends I threatened her, because it brings value to me, every time.

Also respond with an icy retort that you are ready to dump her IMMEDIATELY with no care for her existence if she does not shape up her act she gets DUMPED IMMEDIATELY and you will withdrawal contact with her FOREVER, unless she gets in line.
I Dumped my ex recently.. Several warnings to fix her bad attitude, her disrespectful and very combative attitude.. She didn't make the changes I needed.

Kicked her out of my house and never spoke to her since. Solid 4 months NC
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not really.
In the Red Light District of Amsterdam, you can get a BJ for around fifty euro.
Try getting your sink fixed by a plumber for less than fifty euro.
Yeah, but what if you're not a plumber?
 

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I'd be weary of women with Male friends. Theyre ususally ex boyfriends / fvck buddies / potention guys to fvck / or maybe using them to meet other guys... But some girls are just genuinley friendly and outgoing by nature and have no intentions behind it. So you on the other hand cant be jealous, paranoid or insecure. Use your best judgement
 

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I'd be weary of women with Male friends. Theyre ususally ex boyfriends / fvck buddies / potention guys to fvck / or maybe using them to meet other guys... But some girls are just genuinley friendly and outgoing by nature and have no intentions behind it. So you on the other hand cant be jealous, paranoid or insecure. Use your best judgement
I think you have to take a look at the girl.

If she has a permiscues past & has a bunch of dude freinds. She is likely a liability.

If she is the attention seeking type, oh then facts she is not worth the risk of getting involved with.
 
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