VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VladPatton said:Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sageproduct said:I used to think you were actually a serious poster. Have you ever made a single fwcking post that didn't involve talking about race?
I'm asian, and few things p!ss me off more than asians who don't do anything but talk about [the disadvantages of] being asian. This board and many PUA communities are fwcking swimming with asians. It's in our demographic to be unsuccessful with women and to want to improve. Now I know you're ranting and releasing, but if you don't have the latter characteristic, please get the fwck out of here.
And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.EuropePUA said:Your fvcking 20, you don't know sh1t about the world.
You think everything is equal and that white women will give you the time of day.
I use to think that when I was 20, but now im 27 and i see the truth.
How many white b1tches have you fvcked? probably zero, not one to give advice.
Prove me wrong and show me some pictures of you with white b1tches.
You have none.
sageproduct said:And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.
Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've come from a hard place and have made a commitment to change this part of my life.EuropePUA said:How many white b1tches have you fvcked?
...Yes. Many, actually. Except I don't call them "b1tches", I call them my friends.Do you have any pictures of you with white b1tches?
Um...no.Silient nerdy Asian guys like you are the reason why white people walk all over us.
You get taken advantage of, pushed around, and instead of standing up for yourself
you just take it.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
There is a saying that my friend lives by.EuropePUA said:"Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've made a commitment to change this part of my life."
You hear that sosuave, another fellow Asian male fails to get laid.
The curse of the Asian-Amerian male is true,
It is not just me that this is happening too, despite the efforts of this man, he is a virgin as well.
I am gurantee you, in seven years, this man will still be like this, STILL A VIRGIN, however he will be
lonely, bitter, twisted, and angry by that time.
Its society that has fvcked us over, Asian-Americans males won't be able to get laid, but white guys will be fvcking all the Asian girls they want.
Is this justice?
I am fvcking angry!!
DON'T YOU FVCKING SEE, your commitment doesn't matter.
Open your eyes, im committed as fvck yet im still a virgin.
over 54% of Asian-American females choose to marry white men.
This means the MAJORITY YES THE FVCKING MAJORITY of your own race of women don't want you.
White women don't want you.
IF you leave the country and goto Europe, women here dont like you.
Its the same thing in Europe,
THere are only White Guy/Asian girls couple, I have not seen
I REPEAT
I REPEAT I HAVE NOT SEEN 1 ASIAN GUY/WHITE GIRL COUPLE
SINCE IVE BEEN HERE.
WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DO IS IMPOSSIBLE.
54% a MAJORITY OF ASIAN AMERICAN FEMALES MARRY WHITE MEN,
BUT WHITE MEN DENY THAT THERE IS A ANY PROBLEMS FOR ASIAN AMERICAN MALES
TO GET GIRLS AND ITS JUST BECAUSE OF THE PERSON. YEAH RIGHT, HOW THE FVCK
DO YOU EXPLAIN THIS 54% FIGURE?? LETS HEAR IT WHITE MEN.
I WILL FVCKING SPREAD THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT, UNLESS I GET KILLED.
AAAgent said:I think it's the cry baby asian's that don't stand up for themselves that don't get any girls. Go to the ghetto and i bet u, you'll see Asian people over there fvcking girls and having kids. My friends cousin has a kid with a white girl and he's only 19. The kid is 2 years old.
I'm asian and i'm not a virgin. I've dated women of every skin color.
How is a girl supposed to like you and you don't even like yourself. You need to work on yourself and until your content with that, stay in your damn h8ter box.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.