VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton said:Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sageproduct said:I used to think you were actually a serious poster. Have you ever made a single fwcking post that didn't involve talking about race?
I'm asian, and few things p!ss me off more than asians who don't do anything but talk about [the disadvantages of] being asian. This board and many PUA communities are fwcking swimming with asians. It's in our demographic to be unsuccessful with women and to want to improve. Now I know you're ranting and releasing, but if you don't have the latter characteristic, please get the fwck out of here.
And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.EuropePUA said:Your fvcking 20, you don't know sh1t about the world.
You think everything is equal and that white women will give you the time of day.
I use to think that when I was 20, but now im 27 and i see the truth.
How many white b1tches have you fvcked? probably zero, not one to give advice.
Prove me wrong and show me some pictures of you with white b1tches.
You have none.
sageproduct said:And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.
Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've come from a hard place and have made a commitment to change this part of my life.EuropePUA said:How many white b1tches have you fvcked?
...Yes. Many, actually. Except I don't call them "b1tches", I call them my friends.Do you have any pictures of you with white b1tches?
Um...no.Silient nerdy Asian guys like you are the reason why white people walk all over us.
You get taken advantage of, pushed around, and instead of standing up for yourself
you just take it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
There is a saying that my friend lives by.EuropePUA said:"Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've made a commitment to change this part of my life."
You hear that sosuave, another fellow Asian male fails to get laid.
The curse of the Asian-Amerian male is true,
It is not just me that this is happening too, despite the efforts of this man, he is a virgin as well.
I am gurantee you, in seven years, this man will still be like this, STILL A VIRGIN, however he will be
lonely, bitter, twisted, and angry by that time.
Its society that has fvcked us over, Asian-Americans males won't be able to get laid, but white guys will be fvcking all the Asian girls they want.
Is this justice?
I am fvcking angry!!
DON'T YOU FVCKING SEE, your commitment doesn't matter.
Open your eyes, im committed as fvck yet im still a virgin.
over 54% of Asian-American females choose to marry white men.
This means the MAJORITY YES THE FVCKING MAJORITY of your own race of women don't want you.
White women don't want you.
IF you leave the country and goto Europe, women here dont like you.
Its the same thing in Europe,
THere are only White Guy/Asian girls couple, I have not seen
I REPEAT
I REPEAT I HAVE NOT SEEN 1 ASIAN GUY/WHITE GIRL COUPLE
SINCE IVE BEEN HERE.
WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DO IS IMPOSSIBLE.
54% a MAJORITY OF ASIAN AMERICAN FEMALES MARRY WHITE MEN,
BUT WHITE MEN DENY THAT THERE IS A ANY PROBLEMS FOR ASIAN AMERICAN MALES
TO GET GIRLS AND ITS JUST BECAUSE OF THE PERSON. YEAH RIGHT, HOW THE FVCK
DO YOU EXPLAIN THIS 54% FIGURE?? LETS HEAR IT WHITE MEN.
I WILL FVCKING SPREAD THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT, UNLESS I GET KILLED.
AAAgent said:I think it's the cry baby asian's that don't stand up for themselves that don't get any girls. Go to the ghetto and i bet u, you'll see Asian people over there fvcking girls and having kids. My friends cousin has a kid with a white girl and he's only 19. The kid is 2 years old.
I'm asian and i'm not a virgin. I've dated women of every skin color.
How is a girl supposed to like you and you don't even like yourself. You need to work on yourself and until your content with that, stay in your damn h8ter box.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.