VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
VladPatton said:Take a look at the white guys Asian chicks are with, they are usually dorky and goofy. I don't know why, but it's something I've noticed for years.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sageproduct said:I used to think you were actually a serious poster. Have you ever made a single fwcking post that didn't involve talking about race?
I'm asian, and few things p!ss me off more than asians who don't do anything but talk about [the disadvantages of] being asian. This board and many PUA communities are fwcking swimming with asians. It's in our demographic to be unsuccessful with women and to want to improve. Now I know you're ranting and releasing, but if you don't have the latter characteristic, please get the fwck out of here.
And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.EuropePUA said:Your fvcking 20, you don't know sh1t about the world.
You think everything is equal and that white women will give you the time of day.
I use to think that when I was 20, but now im 27 and i see the truth.
How many white b1tches have you fvcked? probably zero, not one to give advice.
Prove me wrong and show me some pictures of you with white b1tches.
You have none.
sageproduct said:And you having 7 more years of life on me doesn't mean anything if you spent those years with your head up your @$$ whining about your disadvantages all the time. YEAH WE ARE DISADVANTAGED AS ASIAN AMERICAN MALES. VERY disadvantaged sometimes, YES. What can we do about it? NOTHING. So NO, I am not going to b!tch about it all day. Get over it. I've accepted the disadvantage, and I've accepted the challenge, so go ahead and cry at home about how unfair it is and how easy it is for everyone else. Because SOME of us are going to climb uphill and succeed in spite of the obstacles.
Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've come from a hard place and have made a commitment to change this part of my life.EuropePUA said:How many white b1tches have you fvcked?
...Yes. Many, actually. Except I don't call them "b1tches", I call them my friends.Do you have any pictures of you with white b1tches?
Um...no.Silient nerdy Asian guys like you are the reason why white people walk all over us.
You get taken advantage of, pushed around, and instead of standing up for yourself
you just take it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
There is a saying that my friend lives by.EuropePUA said:"Zero. I've fwcked zero b!tches total. Guess what, I'm not ashamed of this in the least bit, because I've made a commitment to change this part of my life."
You hear that sosuave, another fellow Asian male fails to get laid.
The curse of the Asian-Amerian male is true,
It is not just me that this is happening too, despite the efforts of this man, he is a virgin as well.
I am gurantee you, in seven years, this man will still be like this, STILL A VIRGIN, however he will be
lonely, bitter, twisted, and angry by that time.
Its society that has fvcked us over, Asian-Americans males won't be able to get laid, but white guys will be fvcking all the Asian girls they want.
Is this justice?
I am fvcking angry!!
DON'T YOU FVCKING SEE, your commitment doesn't matter.
Open your eyes, im committed as fvck yet im still a virgin.
over 54% of Asian-American females choose to marry white men.
This means the MAJORITY YES THE FVCKING MAJORITY of your own race of women don't want you.
White women don't want you.
IF you leave the country and goto Europe, women here dont like you.
Its the same thing in Europe,
THere are only White Guy/Asian girls couple, I have not seen
I REPEAT
I REPEAT I HAVE NOT SEEN 1 ASIAN GUY/WHITE GIRL COUPLE
SINCE IVE BEEN HERE.
WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DO IS IMPOSSIBLE.
54% a MAJORITY OF ASIAN AMERICAN FEMALES MARRY WHITE MEN,
BUT WHITE MEN DENY THAT THERE IS A ANY PROBLEMS FOR ASIAN AMERICAN MALES
TO GET GIRLS AND ITS JUST BECAUSE OF THE PERSON. YEAH RIGHT, HOW THE FVCK
DO YOU EXPLAIN THIS 54% FIGURE?? LETS HEAR IT WHITE MEN.
I WILL FVCKING SPREAD THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT, UNLESS I GET KILLED.
AAAgent said:I think it's the cry baby asian's that don't stand up for themselves that don't get any girls. Go to the ghetto and i bet u, you'll see Asian people over there fvcking girls and having kids. My friends cousin has a kid with a white girl and he's only 19. The kid is 2 years old.
I'm asian and i'm not a virgin. I've dated women of every skin color.
How is a girl supposed to like you and you don't even like yourself. You need to work on yourself and until your content with that, stay in your damn h8ter box.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.