She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
Sarge On...
Where on earth did I say that?! I make $70,000 U.S. per year after tax, I have 2 HB9's in my rotation that I picked up from early July to now. My lifestyle is great, I go on many vacations, drive a nice car, and am in the process of finding a house to buy.The Truth said:Consent, it sounds as if your goal is to be average.
If you are content to settle for average girls, an average job and average lifestyle, go for it, but I want better for myself.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
Sarge On...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areShezz said:haha ohhh the irony![]()
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You're coming across as desperately trying to prove yourself and "1-up" people here, when nobody cares. That's why people are laughing at you.Consent said:haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areNo wonder you've said many times you can't even get girls interested in you. The funny thing is is that MORE THAN ONE of your "friends" you linked on your PUA blog emailed me after reading this thread telling me what a joke they really think of you in just the past 3 days after I told them about this thread. "There were two girls fighting over a short bald guy outside of the bar"?! LMAO...how creative...nice canned routine there. And you STILL get blown out of any quality set. Ouch.
And by the way I'm done with this thread. I'll let a KBJ like you rack up another 2,500 posts in over a year while you can't even get anything higher than a HB7 of quality with your little canned routines.