You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
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Where on earth did I say that?! I make $70,000 U.S. per year after tax, I have 2 HB9's in my rotation that I picked up from early July to now. My lifestyle is great, I go on many vacations, drive a nice car, and am in the process of finding a house to buy.The Truth said:Consent, it sounds as if your goal is to be average.
If you are content to settle for average girls, an average job and average lifestyle, go for it, but I want better for myself.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areShezz said:haha ohhh the irony![]()
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You're coming across as desperately trying to prove yourself and "1-up" people here, when nobody cares. That's why people are laughing at you.Consent said:haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areNo wonder you've said many times you can't even get girls interested in you. The funny thing is is that MORE THAN ONE of your "friends" you linked on your PUA blog emailed me after reading this thread telling me what a joke they really think of you in just the past 3 days after I told them about this thread. "There were two girls fighting over a short bald guy outside of the bar"?! LMAO...how creative...nice canned routine there. And you STILL get blown out of any quality set. Ouch.
And by the way I'm done with this thread. I'll let a KBJ like you rack up another 2,500 posts in over a year while you can't even get anything higher than a HB7 of quality with your little canned routines.