You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
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Where on earth did I say that?! I make $70,000 U.S. per year after tax, I have 2 HB9's in my rotation that I picked up from early July to now. My lifestyle is great, I go on many vacations, drive a nice car, and am in the process of finding a house to buy.The Truth said:Consent, it sounds as if your goal is to be average.
If you are content to settle for average girls, an average job and average lifestyle, go for it, but I want better for myself.
Shezz said:It's ok man, it's ok...![]()
Sarge On...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areShezz said:haha ohhh the irony![]()
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You're coming across as desperately trying to prove yourself and "1-up" people here, when nobody cares. That's why people are laughing at you.Consent said:haha glad you agree with the irony, and giving another example of this by replying in my thread of what a KBJ you areNo wonder you've said many times you can't even get girls interested in you. The funny thing is is that MORE THAN ONE of your "friends" you linked on your PUA blog emailed me after reading this thread telling me what a joke they really think of you in just the past 3 days after I told them about this thread. "There were two girls fighting over a short bald guy outside of the bar"?! LMAO...how creative...nice canned routine there. And you STILL get blown out of any quality set. Ouch.
And by the way I'm done with this thread. I'll let a KBJ like you rack up another 2,500 posts in over a year while you can't even get anything higher than a HB7 of quality with your little canned routines.