"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The confessional

Psycho`Sexual

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I think, it would be very helpful to this website if we had a confessional forum.

Perhaps it could just be a stickied Thread, if you dont want to go to the trouble of making a forum.

But i consider it very importantly for becoming DJ's to talk about their AFC behaviour. Talking about your problems DOES help to face them.

Also soon the forum would grow, filled with stories, and when an AFC comes here, he wont feel as bad about having AFCish tendencies.

Thusly he will be much more likely to notice aspects about himself wich he doesnt like, and therefore would be on a road to recovery much faster.

As opposed to being faced with DJ "masters" and all sorts f smart people giving excellent advice, the afc will come to associate with the other members of the forums, thereby being himself more honest, and less offended at being flamed.


All in all, tihs will help drastically with improving forum quality, and also helping a LOT of the people coming here to face their problems and grow.

Sort of like a support group for rape victims, except with AFC's.


Let me know what you people think.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eternal

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Nah, I think we should sticky "Your Most AFC move" and "Most Obvious Come-On Missed." No flames are in there, just people going "ah man, same thing happened to me, I want to kick my own ass!"
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
Lol, only problem is, half of the people on this board had thier first post deleted because of the timer on the posts.
 

oreo_renegade

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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
yeah, like some loser AFC is going to do that, and what about the peopel who keep changing their screen names?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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