"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The confessional

Psycho`Sexual

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I think, it would be very helpful to this website if we had a confessional forum.

Perhaps it could just be a stickied Thread, if you dont want to go to the trouble of making a forum.

But i consider it very importantly for becoming DJ's to talk about their AFC behaviour. Talking about your problems DOES help to face them.

Also soon the forum would grow, filled with stories, and when an AFC comes here, he wont feel as bad about having AFCish tendencies.

Thusly he will be much more likely to notice aspects about himself wich he doesnt like, and therefore would be on a road to recovery much faster.

As opposed to being faced with DJ "masters" and all sorts f smart people giving excellent advice, the afc will come to associate with the other members of the forums, thereby being himself more honest, and less offended at being flamed.


All in all, tihs will help drastically with improving forum quality, and also helping a LOT of the people coming here to face their problems and grow.

Sort of like a support group for rape victims, except with AFC's.


Let me know what you people think.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eternal

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Nah, I think we should sticky "Your Most AFC move" and "Most Obvious Come-On Missed." No flames are in there, just people going "ah man, same thing happened to me, I want to kick my own ass!"
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
Lol, only problem is, half of the people on this board had thier first post deleted because of the timer on the posts.
 

oreo_renegade

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Originally posted by iqqi
all you have to do is a search under the person's name, and go to their first post! :p :eek:
yeah, like some loser AFC is going to do that, and what about the peopel who keep changing their screen names?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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